My mom is an ENFP, and it's sort of a love-hate relationship.
On the one hand, I don't judge anyone because of their type or based on previous relations with someone of the same type.
With my mom, it's complicated. It could just be a parent-child thing and less of an ENFP-ISFJ thing. She was always a very loving and affectionate parent, for sure. But I'd find myself getting frustrated with her a lot, too. As a kid I'd say something like, "Hey, we have to leave now or I'm going to be late for school/this birthday party/etc." And she'd wave me off and say "Okay but wait until this program is over." "But that's another 15 minutes!!" I hate being late lol. At the store, she'd hyperfocus. Internally I'm sure she was assessing the differences between products, which is better, etc. But she'd hyperfocus for like 10 minutes. And any time me or my sister would try to get her attention, we'd be ignored or hushed. This could be less ENFP, and more ADHD, I don't know.
I no longer live with my mom. I'm living with my dad while I go to school--his house is so much close to my university. When I left, I was about 17 (I'm 21 now; I'm taking forever in school lol) and she cried because she felt like her children were abandoning her. I hated that. I tried to explain why, because it made more practical sense, but she couldn't help it. She hardly ever breaks down like that unless she's pushed past her limits. Since moving out, new problems with my mom have arisen. She usually ignores me when I call or text her or message her, but if my sister wants to talk to her, she's there immediately. She has told me before (she tried to say it lightly but it hurt) that she likes my sister more than me. Sometimes I feel like she takes advantage of me and sees me more for my bank about ("Can I borrow 200 dollars and pay you back Saturday??") than an actual person.
I think my mom has been a good mom. She is always supportive of me. We have our problems (which mostly stem from her thinking I'm "too much like my dad", an ISTJ). But we get along. As an adult I see her as more of a friend than a parent, for sure. She's someone I like to hang out with.
Christmas hasn't felt like a holiday in years and I don't know why. Especially since my parents got divorced when I was 16. Last Christmas, my sister and I drove to her house in the morning. Despite being broke and trapped at her low-paying job (literally trapped, her house is on-site and if she had the money to move, she'd have 3 days to do it) she put together little presents, chocolate-filled stockings for everyone, and cooked a nice dinner. She can be really messy and disorganized in her home life, but at work she works TOO HARD, becomes a perfectionist. She often stays hours after her shift is over to make sure everything is just right.
So, I think my ENFP mom is a good person. A person who works too hard, who cares too much. A person whose motives might be misunderstood sometimes. A good friend. A very outgoing and fun person who wants everyone to have fun and feel accepted. Messy, disorganized, all over the place; but she makes up for it in her kindness.