Kierkagaard
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Okay, so what I’d like from you guys and the reason I’ll be posting today is because I’m interested in typing my fiancé. So, I'm not great with this sort of thing (I know enough to say I'm an INTP) but I'm going to attempt to describe her in the best terms I can and hopefully get the assistance of people more insightful than myself.
Without further adieu, let's get down to business.
I'm going to start by saying that I'm pretty much 100% sure about her being an IxFJ but again I won't claim to be any kind of authority on this sort of thing but at least if my description is completely off from any variation of that then it's most likely my description that needs improving (in which case I apologize for wasting your time from the get-go).
So I suppose I can start with her more positive attributes (positive being a subjective term for things I like most about her versus other things I still like, but not as much). She is most definitely an intelligent and thoughtful person. Not in the general or obvious sense but in the 'she can sit around for long periods of time just to think' sort of way. I wouldn't say this only applies to popular subjects either but rather she thinks about all aspects of life in a similar fashion often trying out various different perspectives and taking new opinions into consideration all the time. With a very malleable worldview but on founded mostly on logic she seems to have no issue looking at things through the thought processes of others and using this to broaden and deepen her own ideas. I've always loved and admired this about her since I've fairly poor at recognizing the benefits or positives in beliefs contrary to my own (not in a devaluing way though).
She's most certainly introverted as I am, preferring to have only a couple close friends but being heavily invested in those few relationships on a positive and emotionally trust-founded way. That said, she does have trouble being around large groups of people and doesn't tend to open up around most people but given her analytical nature loves learning about them and about the things that make them unique. Emotional connections and support mean a lot to her and she takes this connection very seriously when it comes to people she trusts. She doesn't tend to work well with any kind of chaos and is always seeking a certain level of stability and tranquility in her life and stress very easily accumulates when things aren't quite how she needs them to be. Like right now we're apart because I'm back home earning money so we can move in together and not having me there is causing both of us a lot of undue stress which gets into every other aspect of her life and acts as to make all the other stresses much more difficult to deal with in an individual sense.
She very much values her sense of intelligence and independence but can often be plagued with doubt about these things (such as feeling like a close relationship is making her too dependent or that being around someone who is also intelligent makes her feel unintelligent). She's definitely an organized person and loves making plans and plotting and generally thinking about the future. This also translates well into short term planning and having things planned down to the minute and successfully pulled off has a sense of comfort for her. Negatively this attests to a perfectionism that affects most of the things she does (but doesn't usually apply to others nearly as strictly) and having anything less than ideal can sometimes be upsetting. She's definitely the type to consider the consequences of every action before getting into doing anything and she frets often and seriously about how things can or might go wrong.
That's about all I can come up with at the moment, but there's probably a lot more I can say. If anyone needs any clarification on anything or can think of other questions I could answer about her I'll definitely answer. I appreciate your patience in this matter and eagerly await your reponses!
Without further adieu, let's get down to business.
I'm going to start by saying that I'm pretty much 100% sure about her being an IxFJ but again I won't claim to be any kind of authority on this sort of thing but at least if my description is completely off from any variation of that then it's most likely my description that needs improving (in which case I apologize for wasting your time from the get-go).
So I suppose I can start with her more positive attributes (positive being a subjective term for things I like most about her versus other things I still like, but not as much). She is most definitely an intelligent and thoughtful person. Not in the general or obvious sense but in the 'she can sit around for long periods of time just to think' sort of way. I wouldn't say this only applies to popular subjects either but rather she thinks about all aspects of life in a similar fashion often trying out various different perspectives and taking new opinions into consideration all the time. With a very malleable worldview but on founded mostly on logic she seems to have no issue looking at things through the thought processes of others and using this to broaden and deepen her own ideas. I've always loved and admired this about her since I've fairly poor at recognizing the benefits or positives in beliefs contrary to my own (not in a devaluing way though).
She's most certainly introverted as I am, preferring to have only a couple close friends but being heavily invested in those few relationships on a positive and emotionally trust-founded way. That said, she does have trouble being around large groups of people and doesn't tend to open up around most people but given her analytical nature loves learning about them and about the things that make them unique. Emotional connections and support mean a lot to her and she takes this connection very seriously when it comes to people she trusts. She doesn't tend to work well with any kind of chaos and is always seeking a certain level of stability and tranquility in her life and stress very easily accumulates when things aren't quite how she needs them to be. Like right now we're apart because I'm back home earning money so we can move in together and not having me there is causing both of us a lot of undue stress which gets into every other aspect of her life and acts as to make all the other stresses much more difficult to deal with in an individual sense.
She very much values her sense of intelligence and independence but can often be plagued with doubt about these things (such as feeling like a close relationship is making her too dependent or that being around someone who is also intelligent makes her feel unintelligent). She's definitely an organized person and loves making plans and plotting and generally thinking about the future. This also translates well into short term planning and having things planned down to the minute and successfully pulled off has a sense of comfort for her. Negatively this attests to a perfectionism that affects most of the things she does (but doesn't usually apply to others nearly as strictly) and having anything less than ideal can sometimes be upsetting. She's definitely the type to consider the consequences of every action before getting into doing anything and she frets often and seriously about how things can or might go wrong.
That's about all I can come up with at the moment, but there's probably a lot more I can say. If anyone needs any clarification on anything or can think of other questions I could answer about her I'll definitely answer. I appreciate your patience in this matter and eagerly await your reponses!