Hazashin
Secret Sex Freak
- Joined
- Apr 22, 2011
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
Alright, so I'm having doubts about my Enneatype again. It has been brought to my attention by [MENTION=5356]Speed Gavroche[/MENTION] that I do not express/act like a typical 6. I am more easy-going, low-key, and accepting than most 6s, and I seem to have an agreeable quality to me. I also dislike upsetting people (though not because I fear conflict but because I just care about my friends and people too much for them to get hurt) and I am often compliant.
On the flip side, I fear being without support or guidance, I am very loyal (especially with those who gain my trust), I am sometimes dependent, I am constantly doubting myself, I am afraid of taking action in problematic situations because of potential negative consequences, I worry a LOT, and I am sometimes a very conflicting person.
To help out, I have copied (and modified) here a list of qualities of myself that I had used in a previous thread of mine.
On the flip side, I fear being without support or guidance, I am very loyal (especially with those who gain my trust), I am sometimes dependent, I am constantly doubting myself, I am afraid of taking action in problematic situations because of potential negative consequences, I worry a LOT, and I am sometimes a very conflicting person.
To help out, I have copied (and modified) here a list of qualities of myself that I had used in a previous thread of mine.
- Often dependent and inefficient with original thought, but VERY opinionated (an awful paradox of mine) and not group-oriented
- Often obsessive, but sometimes flighty and scatter-brained
- Passionate with things I care about, but unenthusiastic about most things
- Very loyal, especially with close friends and friends
- Lazy and undutiful with things I find unnecessary, but loyal and responsible with things I find necessary.
- Sometimes uncreative and unoriginal, but inquisitive and curious
- Almost completely deliberating -- too much so to the point of almost paralyzed indecisiveness
- Temperamental and emotional, but reserved most of time
- Very sensitive, but not defensive more often than not
- Mostly low-key, but periodically energetic
- Focused a lot on others, but sometimes too detached to have motivation to help them or simply cannot figure out ways to help them, whatever the situation may be
- Cooperative and compliant more often than not, but have my own values that I strongly stick to and do not conform
- Extremely guilty-conscious, but not necessarily 'responsible-feeling'
- Liking and loving of people, but not drawn to them for the most part
- Not very disciplined, but considerably determined and perseverant
- Persistent, but mostly passive due to wanting to take the best course of action as to avoid negative consequences
- Usually non-proactive, but not necessarily reactive
- Pacifistic and non-confrontational, but argumentative
- Detailed, meticulous, and perfectionistic of own work, but very accepting and understanding of others to the point of feeling like everybody should be pardoned for their faults
- Wishing well of others, but often self-pitying
- Very competitive, but always feeling bad for winning
- Rule-abiding, but usually not rule-agreeing
- Treating everyone as equals, but regularly feeling inferior
- Unsociable, but friendly and warm with everyone who engages (though most of the time I'm very awkward) (also correlates with the Supine temperament)
- Sometimes very longing (but most of the time not), but feel guilty of it and do not ask others to get me whatever it is (if it is something that can be given) more often than not
- Considerably cautious and tentative, but sometimes unaware
- Mostly responsible, though sometimes forgetful
- Uncaring of success in the big sense in the word, as in fame and prestige, but very afraid of failing in individual things (e.g. "I must not lose this game," "I must not do this incorrectly," etc.), especially letting people I care about most down
- Mostly see good in everyone in the big sense of the word, but sometimes doubtful of them and their abilities if not proven so
- Almost entirely modest, though I do like compliments and being loved very much
- Emotionally expressive for the most part in private and people I'm close to (though sometimes emotionally void for some reason), but much more reserved in public as to not embarrass myself
- Very shy and timid, but open up rather easily and become interested to those who approach me (95% of my friends approached me first)
- Anxious and nervous quite frequently, but more calm and easy-going when not
- Somewhat idealistic, but not visionary and ambitious about it that much at all
- Very intimate and affectionate with those I'm close to, but only if they are comfortable with it
* EXTREMELY self-critical, self-conscious, insecure, and shameful