I have my own set of rules I think. But a lot of them coincide with regular, actual rules.
My INFJ mom was always driving into my head what to do and when: "Don't forget to wash your hands!" "Brush your teeth!" "Hang up your shirt!" etc., over and over and over, long after I knew what to do... I used to get so mad at her. It was incredibly annoying. She always liked things done a certain way and wanted her environment her way which included me doing things the "right" way (her way).
But now I just do things that seem good to me, and yes, I do find myself doing things inefficiently at times, happy in the familiarity of it. But I also find that sometimes the way I do things is faster and better, and I get compliments.
My INFJ mom was always driving into my head what to do and when: "Don't forget to wash your hands!" "Brush your teeth!" "Hang up your shirt!" etc., over and over and over, long after I knew what to do... I used to get so mad at her. It was incredibly annoying. She always liked things done a certain way and wanted her environment her way which included me doing things the "right" way (her way).
But now I just do things that seem good to me, and yes, I do find myself doing things inefficiently at times, happy in the familiarity of it. But I also find that sometimes the way I do things is faster and better, and I get compliments.