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It happens...
I am old.
Having a penis.
Im sorry but I just cant handle that in a woman.
Having a penis.
Im sorry but I just cant handle that in a woman.
I posted this to my blog as an attempt to illustrate that you have to be really conscious of what you lack in your personal traits compared to what you expect in the person you want (ideally I know). I personally think my list illustrates that.
My list is simple.
Must have nice smile, good vibe between us, average to above average intelligence, average to above average corpus (she needs to have a little meat on her body) and someone that will give me space.
Dealbreakers would be unstable life if having kids (meaning disputes with father over custody and such), drugaddicts, someone that cant compromise and someone that dont respect my decisions.
As long that is met which I think most girls would fit, everything else is pretty much up for grabs.
One thing I do find attractive in a girl is something peculiar in them, some inperfection, some trait that makes her stand out physical or mentally.
Go find a nice submissive INFP.
Would you like some poison with your coffee, dear?
Having a penis.
Im sorry but I just cant handle that in a woman.
females having a list of dealbreakers
Dealbreakers:
Obesity, age, kids, higher status, and CPD (chihuahua personality disorder).
Kids are radioactive; only a real chump would want to raise another man's litter!
Obesity is obvious.
Age is less obvious, at least to women, who think men look at women the way women look at men. Unlike men, women are like cars-- they depreciate in value over time. Many women seem like used cars, especially once they hit thirty.
Higher status-- if a woman makes more dinero than me, that's a total turnoff. Women are the same way, but in reverse-- if a woman is "secure" with dating a lower status guy, then she's likely not playing with a full deck.
Use your imagination for the chihuahua.
Anonymity, now even giving INFP's some backbone!
(I'm just kidding! Oh, and I'll have a lump of sugar and a dash of milk with mine, please. )
When they say they like animals better than people - I've found this usually comes from a bitter person that blames the human race entire for all their failed relationships and prefers animals cos they do what you tell them and don't talk back or have any discernible needs of their own besides food.
Fs who seem to question your level of love/commitment to them for no rational reason. For example, just the other night the F dom was unavailable to spend 4th of July with me because of other engagements and she also had to work early the next day.
I didn't sweat it and after dinner and fireworks with my folks I went downtown where there were a lot of partyiers to got karaoke singing at a club. She gets pissed off because I didn't stay at home so I could call her on the telephone for a long chat before she went to bed. Ended up makeing me feel pretty crappy until she cheered up (apparently she eventually cheered up because I was feeling crappy rather than unaffected) [to mitigate her conduct I made her my "girlfriend" Saturday morning, didn't call her Sat night and she felt two nights in a row without telephone call was too long after entering into a romantic relationship (but there was emails/text messages)]
When people bring up stuff like this, it starts making me (half) wonder if I am a T, despite firmly knowing I am Fi-dom.
Maybe it's my high introversion, but in such a situation, I wouldn't think anything about what you did, nor feel the need to talk. I tend to be the one avoiding long chats on the phone with my ESFP bf (is every single night really necessary?). I'm a "quality over quantity" person when it comes to communication...
Me too. It seems like they are with me as it is when I dream/imagine about them. Consistent/constant real world contact therefore seems a bit superfluous.
I suspect it is more of an SF thing than simply F. My theory being that the N spreads a little contact a long way.
As a matter of fact here she texts now wanting me to see her. (admittedly I am looking forward to some smooching)
Maybe it's my high introversion.