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By 'no' should I assume you mean 'yes'?
Yes, and right away furthermore.
By 'no' should I assume you mean 'yes'?
Actually... no.
(That's why I am having some trouble understanding your interpretations of people's behavior!)
By 'no' should I assume you mean 'yes'?
The girls that Sona is talking about were all Ps who couldn't make up their minds, obviously.
To put nicely the girl I'm talking about is ugly so even if I were attracted to girls I wouldn't be attracted to her. Honestly, I think she should get a sex change she might be attractive if she was a dude. That's not fair, she has huge boobs going for her.
I was talking to a girl once who occasionally had sex with guys she didn't want to have sex with simply because she was too depressed and had too low self-esteem to sustain opposition to their advances. She figured "I'll just let them do it quickly and get it over with and then they'll leave me alone." I think she felt that it was probably somehow her fault that she'd gotten into the situation in the first place.
OP: have you considered responding physically? I was once slapped by a girl for unintentionally violating her boundaries (wasn't hitting on her, just got too close too quickly while goofing around) and I got the message pretty quickly. She apologized for it later but I don't think I came within 10 feet of her after that, not because I was scared of another slap but rather because I was playing it safe with her boundaries. Or you could straight out punch her in the nose.
Well that stinks! I'm sorry.I don't tell my mom things because she'll either with some very bizzare logic make it my fault. Or will want to talk. I wouldn't mind talking if she'd listen and wouldn't act like everyone in the world thinks the same as her.
My dad I'm sure wouldn't care as it has nothing to do with him directly.
I don't tell my mom things because she'll either with some very bizzare logic make it my fault. Or will want to talk. I wouldn't mind talking if she'd listen and wouldn't act like everyone in the world thinks the same as her.
My dad I'm sure wouldn't care as it has nothing to do with him directly.
Also, make it especially clear to them that you don't want them giving her your address in Chicago.
Ouch, yeah. Last thing you need is her driving those 10 hours and showing up on your doorstep one day while you're with someone.
i think you should invite her to at least one more outing.
If I was a female I'd be classed as a slut.
It does sound like you are going to have to be really direct with this person. Some ways to make it less personal than "I don't like you" is to say things like "Don't touch me. You make me uncomfortable, and I don't want to be around you. Go find someone else who likes it. I don't." Any or all of that might help.Any advice on how to say I don't like you. you're annoying and have no personal space. and her getting the message. I've tried, but I suck at telling people what exactly I think of them. It comes out either to nice and they love me and think I'm the greatest or overly bitchy.