I am 24 and have been "soul searching" for years. It seems to be a never ending quest - I never understand myself - why I feel how I feel or think what I think, and no one else seems to "get" me either.
I often am exhausted because I tend to put on a "happy-go-lucky" face on to make people more comfortable, because I worry that if I am "myself" people may mistake me as rude/mean/arrogant/etc. I've done this since I was a child.
This Thursday will mark my last day at a job that I hate - loathe is a better word. My husband and I have decided to make a fresh start in a new place - and part of my journey will be learning who I truly am.
I have taken several personality tests within the past several months, just trying to get a clue about what sets me apart from people. I am always misunderstood. My type always ends up being "INFJ" and it describes me to a "T", but since it is so rare to be an INFJ, I wonder if I am wrong?
I often am exhausted because I tend to put on a "happy-go-lucky" face on to make people more comfortable, because I worry that if I am "myself" people may mistake me as rude/mean/arrogant/etc. I've done this since I was a child.
This Thursday will mark my last day at a job that I hate - loathe is a better word. My husband and I have decided to make a fresh start in a new place - and part of my journey will be learning who I truly am.
I have taken several personality tests within the past several months, just trying to get a clue about what sets me apart from people. I am always misunderstood. My type always ends up being "INFJ" and it describes me to a "T", but since it is so rare to be an INFJ, I wonder if I am wrong?