Vilku
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- Joined
- Jan 4, 2012
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
ive met three male isfp's in my life, every single on of them attacks me physically for no reason and now i live in a commune with one, who has attacked me physically 6 times in the past two days.. i even promised twice to not do anything which he finds annoying, nevertheless he has today twice intentionally like always, attacked me.
its just wonder this third isfp hasnt gone to fists yet like the two previous i met in my life, and i never even talked with those two other isfps whom attacked me before i met this third one..
is there no way to not be some magic-how annoying to them? =|..................
what are your experiences on this magical same gender AAAA + BBAA combination?
only solution i seem to find is total avoidance which isnt possibles since he can physically damage me even if i lock my room, by pounding in front of my door with maximum volume stereos, fists and shouting which cause me 24h lasting ear pains and ear ringing.
not to mention how these exposures weaken my ears volume resistance completely by expending all the resistance my ears have.
i have just totally lost my trust since he always breaks the promises of truce.
anyone has solutions which doesnt require me to coach him? (it doesnt seem to help at all, have tried.)
oh and im interested in hearing of other peoples experiences with same combination of function difference with same gender person. (different gender has totally different, peace easily found as i have two isfp female friends. although they do.. seem to disdain my thought pattern if i dont focus on giving an estj image.)
its just wonder this third isfp hasnt gone to fists yet like the two previous i met in my life, and i never even talked with those two other isfps whom attacked me before i met this third one..
is there no way to not be some magic-how annoying to them? =|..................
what are your experiences on this magical same gender AAAA + BBAA combination?
only solution i seem to find is total avoidance which isnt possibles since he can physically damage me even if i lock my room, by pounding in front of my door with maximum volume stereos, fists and shouting which cause me 24h lasting ear pains and ear ringing.
not to mention how these exposures weaken my ears volume resistance completely by expending all the resistance my ears have.
i have just totally lost my trust since he always breaks the promises of truce.
anyone has solutions which doesnt require me to coach him? (it doesnt seem to help at all, have tried.)
oh and im interested in hearing of other peoples experiences with same combination of function difference with same gender person. (different gender has totally different, peace easily found as i have two isfp female friends. although they do.. seem to disdain my thought pattern if i dont focus on giving an estj image.)