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i neeeeeeeed that rush of oxytocin! wish i didn't need people to provide it though.
my mind will go to dark places if my partner does not touch me for a whole day. i will bite his hands off, and justify if it by saying: what! you don't seem like you need them anyway!
Yeah, there is something about touch. Taste, smell go along with it for me.
I am very particular about who touches me. There is an ESTJ I work with who tries to flirt with me by little touches all the time. It is so repulsively inside of my space. I dont want to incinerate the guy, but when you touch someone and they flinch away-well that is a sign.
However for those I care about touch is everything. I feel compelled to reach out and touch them, their faces. For my baby the best thing is to bury my face in his neck or kiss his cheeks, not just for a second, but for a full deep moment of contact. I engulf him then let him go.
Lovers-Ah I think touch may be how Fi communicates...
I've spent most of my life thinking its 'wrong' to show affection to people. But it doesn't mean I didnt crave it.. pets were an excellent outlet for me. I think having pets in my life is a large part of why I'm functional now.
This is very familiar. Growing up I did not like to be touched by people at all, thus animals were a source of physical affection. I remember burying my face into my horse's neck, feeling that warmth and strength.
I'm always reminded of the Hug-Me-Pillows:
My dream lover! Does he take out the trash too?