Haven
Blind Guardian
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- Apr 26, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- ESFJ
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- 2w3
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- so/sp
ok let's keep going
What way is that? Do elaborate please. Thanks.
You seem image conscious in such a way that 8s and 7s aren't. These are types that care the least about what others think of them. You seem to care.
Do you have another type in mind?
I was going to suggest 2w3 as an alternative. The way you answer the following questions should confirm or deny that (ideally).
Well it's like, I just enjoy being this way. Do ask specific questions if something is unclear about this.
When do you decide it's time to move on from one thing?
Well say, I decide to get up at the same time everyday. In practice that's hard to execute.
Do you think you'd rather be more or less self disciplined? Are you more self disciplined when others are involved?
As for the moral principles: I just don't have a consciously built up system about moral ideals that I would keep to.
Example: friend says he never went to exams unprepared because he respected his teachers and thought they didn't deserve such treatment, that is, him as a student going unprepared, so he studied for the exams out of a principle. I studied for the exams not because of such a principle but because I wanted to pass the exams. I didn't care about the teachers at all in this sense. It's actually a foreign idea to me to do something just because someone else would be pleased or out of some feeling of obligation whatnot. None of that's me at all.
Well "inspire" was maybe a strong word because I'm not quite sure how I would go about actually inspiring someone, but if someone talks about their plans or if they have an issue to solve, I do encourage them.
Hm, inspiration, maybe it was when I was excited about something and others liked the passion and got interested too.
Do you think you are in a position to inspire others, or would you like to be?
I meant I like to own material things. I feel good having them. Possessive of my stuff. That actually includes some people to an extent
Do you consider yourself possessive?
Well I don't understand it because I'm definitely not this way. I really don't need to be rejected. Example, if I'm interested in someone, I don't put myself out there easily in an emotional sense, I don't expect things to be that great automatically. And if things don't go well, I'm not going to stand there crying in desperate sadness. As I said, this isn't even a conscious decision, there's this block inside protecting me from such shit. I'm sorry if I can't explain this very well. Do ask more specific questions please, then maybe I can explain better.
How do you handle rejection, in general?
I meant, challenges => feeling of aliveness I'm not saying it can't be frustrating if things don't want to work out easily.
What drives you to meet these challenges?
This persevering thing also ties into liking to have a focus and having one deep interest at a time.