Well i think that the real difference is between feeling before acting and thinking before acting. For example: [...]
Yeah, I was gonna say, but you caught it, lol. I agree. Maybe a different example would be like:
INFP: I feel tired and like it would be pleasing to go sleep upstairs at my parents', but I really want to sleep with my boyfriend. So I am going to drive home instead.
Not really much Thinking involved there... Mostly just feeling vs. a stronger feeling.
Versus,
INFP: I could stay at my parents' tonight because I'm tired and it would be easier, or go drive home to sleep with my boyfriend because it's pleasing to curl up with him. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow morning which is closer to my parents' house, and I can sleep at home with my boyfriend tomorrow night. Though, I also have something he needs for work tomorrow, so I guess I have to head back home either tonight or early tomorrow. Kill two birds with one stone if I go tonight.
Te and Fi cooperating.
Incidentally, these are exactly my situations and thoughts right now, lol.
[MENTION=18559]Inis Mona[/MENTION]... Sorry for the slight OT tangent. I definitely see 4w3 for you. I'm inclined to say ENFP, but I don't have much good reason for why yet. Something about the projected energy level I perceive maybe. Obviously I may just be perceiving it wrong.