greenfairy
philosopher wood nymph
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- May 25, 2012
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- 6w5
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- sx/sp
This sounds really scary for some reason. Probably because it reminds me of The Ring.TE NEVER SLEEPS!
Carry on...
This sounds really scary for some reason. Probably because it reminds me of The Ring.TE NEVER SLEEPS!
Nothing to be afraid of. There's nothing subtle, gradual, or ominous about a Te rampage.This sounds really scary for some reason. Probably because it reminds me of The Ring.
Carry on...
TE NEVER SLEEPS!
Oh man -- pardon me for saying this, but FUCK MAGICAL SIGNS AND MIND READING. As you know, I have an NFJ parent too, so I understand! (I think I have it luckier than you in this regard though, since the NFJs in my life usually keep me around precisely because I don't speak that language well. I'm like a vacation or something, for them )haha
No it doesn't. It really, really doesn't. Alert too that one... but direct and succinct making it easier to understand than the mystical realm of mind-reading and magical signs that must be performed so everyone knows who's good... other half of my personal equation. (Oh Mom...you're hard to enjoy but I <3 you.)
Oh man -- pardon me for saying this, but FUCK MAGICAL SIGNS AND MIND READING. As you know, I have an NFJ parent too, so I understand! (I think I have it luckier than you in this regard though, since the NFJs in my life usually keep me around precisely because I don't speak that language well. I'm like a vacation or something, for them )
You know how she hated Professor Trelawney's class! She'd rather be reading Hogwarts: A History. Or learning PRACTICAL magic skills. Not looking for the Grim in her tea leaves.My subconscious tells me you are Hermione Granger (that was your avatar when I got here) so it's strange reading this, like Hermione is cursing about magical signs. Maybe that happens after the series ended.
You know how she hated Professor Trelawney's class! She'd rather be reading Hogwarts: A History. Or learning PRACTICAL magic skills. Not looking for the Grim in her tea leaves.
Oh man -- pardon me for saying this, but FUCK MAGICAL SIGNS AND MIND READING. As you know, I have an NFJ parent too, so I understand! (I think I have it luckier than you in this regard though, since the NFJs in my life usually keep me around precisely because I don't speak that language well. I'm like a vacation or something, for them )
I'm not sure if your father was part of your life...but I know what it's like to have an ENFJ Mom. Granted, for me, being raised by two completely insane iNtuitives comes with a whole different set of challenges...but there's no mystery in my mind as to how my parents created an ENFP 7. EVERYTHING was handled for me...prior to me even knowing it needed to be done. I wasn't tested in the same ways other normal developing young people are. All I had to do was think, dream, remain cheerful (personal preference..."let the laying Fe & Te lie" is what I always say) and have *fun*
How much of you is still buried due to similar circumstance? I really don't know... but I feel something's there. Instincts are a challenge to determine until all cards are on the table and I sense you have one more card to play.
You and I both know exactly what happened though. Beyonce fucked-up one of the magical signs that was suppose to demonstrate to my Mom at the precise moment my Mom needed/requested it via telepathy... that she was a good person.
Is your ENFJ mom also a 2 like mine?
This is exactly how my childhood went Starry. My mom basically handled everything for me so I never really had to worry about anything. I just had to know what I wanted and how to have fun, and then keep up the positivity for the ride.
Interesting, I wonder what card it is though that I'm withholding. /tried pulling an [MENTION=5494]Amargith[/MENTION] even though I have no idea what card you're talking about.
As 2 as can be Okay, I have gone back and forth between 2w1 & 1w2 recently...but when I look back on my upbringing she's a massive 2. I think what happens with so many 2s over time...is that they can become more and more resentful that their efforts to *do good for all people* are not being appreciated and/or reciprocated in the way they believe they should be... And that's when the real ENFJ presents itself haha. I believe it's a connection to e8 anger/control...that occasionally gives her a 1w2 vibe.
Umm...would you preform a surgery without having gone to med school? All I'm saying is if you haven't graduated from the University of Amargith it might be very dangerous...not just for you but for all of us if you are still in residency but putting your training to use in the outside world (okay, honestly I don't really know what you're talking about regarding Amar haha.)
As a young ENFP e7 (<-will naturally seem like a so-dom) that was raised in the way you were by an ENFJ 2 mother (<-will have learned to engage the world in a way that is associated with so-dom) that possesses a strong 2 fix (<-will have traits associated with so-dom)
^^while other people may be confident you are a social dom... I'm just not ready to sign-off on that because I was also raised by a scientist that would look at this evidence and call anyone an "idiot" or maybe even an "asshole" (although with his accent it comes out "azzhole") for doing so.
And in all honesty I do see you engage like an sx-dom... which would make sense if you were an e1 or e8 so/sx ...but not a 729. Even when I insert you into the correct tri-type as a 728 <-here is where I could make a final decision on so/sx but I want to see you turn over that last card first.
What's on the face of that card? I have no idea.
I have the opposite impression, actually, although not in any extreme fashion (rhyme!). I feel there is always something conversationalist about his talks, and he usually does entertain more than one party at a time.You strike me as intense like an sx/so. Whenever I talk to you, I feel like I'm being reeled in on a one-on-one level. But...
I have the opposite impression, actually, although not in any extreme fashion (rhyme!). I feel there is always something conversationalist about his talks, and he usually does entertain more than one party at a time.
My dear Nathan, in terms of forum presence and social ado, he reminds me of EJCC, who, as I just looked up, types as so/sx.All I know is that he's virtually the only person on this site to loosely refer to me by name, without deeply knowing me. On one hand, you might consider this a standard social grace. On the other, it may indicate a desire to keep close tabs on a person. In all likelihood, it's a mixture of both. One way or another, he carries a distinctive presence on this forum, as he always has - which seems to often correspond with the sx instinct more than anything else. sps seem more subdued, while sos sort of seem... flat, somewhere in the middle.
At the risk of starting a bleeding, I say: no.Do you think he even remotely resembles a tortured artist or bleeding heart? Because this is what I'm measuring as a deciding factor re: so vs. sx.
I was trying to be all mysterious and alluring like she was...
...I was actually homeschooled in middle school, and a lot of parts about my mom's interaction I always resented - constantly talking about the troubles she's enduring, trying to talk about all the good things she's done, constantly post on FB random "thoughts" everyday in order to "inspire" people, etc.
Not to mention my best friend, who I met in high school, was an ESFx 2/7 so/sx (I'm calling you to this thread to type her btw) and I learned from her how to interact with a lot of people unconsciously.
I still find confrontation something worth dreading but I think any 2-fixed 7 would. But at the same time in the heat of the moment I still feel energized by it.
I have the opposite impression, actually, although not in any extreme fashion (rhyme!). I feel there is always something conversationalist about his talks, and he usually does entertain more than one party at a time.