Moiety
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- ISFJ
HEY NOW!!
Let the man have his catharsis.
In the end different people are happy in different ways. If nothing else, this is what MBTI helps explain.
HEY NOW!!
Why do you believe you're a loser?
10 years ago I would've been all over that book and it would've made me even crazier than I already was.
Ahem.
Short answer: I have no friends, I have no job, I don't go to school. I just lay around in front of the computer and sleep all day, waiting to be fed. Kind of like a housecat with a computer replacing the yarn.
Anth. What does it matter if you are loser or winner to the outside world? Find what makes you happy. Screw the rest!
If you truly care about people and put people first.......your not a loser.. Sure, you may seem "uninteresting" or Less "outgoing".compared to some. But when it really counts, you'll make a huge impact in someones life where other personalities couldn't come through.. I know, in this culture dominated by mass media; Its tough being who you are but be yourself.. I rather be appreciated by one person, than to be appreciated by 50 or 100 people; Just because I put on a face and "acted" popular.. THe last, Shall be first.. Ahahah the funny thing is, Often times the people that are deemed "cool", are coming to me for advice or direction.. SO, you know tjey don't all have it figured out lolz..
Me too. But reading beyond the first few pages probably wouldn't have happened, the sheer lack of appropriate material would've been too much for my intuition.
I read the long answer too. Sounds totally like me ten years ago. (Except I got the job through a friend of my professor.)
Quick fact check: you're sure you're INFJ?
Ok. So in that case...
First, your Ni is stalled.
Second, your Se is bitching at you, but not putting in.
So, create novelty.
Now's a good time to put on a blindfold and jump in somewhere. Anywhere, really. Except your Ni will mostly be warning of all the things that aren't worth doing. So, you should be putting out feelers of some kind, gathering information about "opportunities," bizarre things that you haven't done before but which ring up scary bells in your intuition.
What came out of my funk ten years ago is... I live in China now.
So, be careful what you wish for
Oh... I'm not talking about being popular. I mean that I really don't have any friends, and that I need a way to reach out to people.
I know I'm probably not a loser in that sense... but I do have the problem of not being able to move forward.
Ahem.
Short answer: I have no friends, I have no job, I don't go to school. I just lay around in front of the computer and sleep all day, waiting to be fed. Kind of like a housecat with a computer replacing the yarn.
Well, I was using the term figuratively more than literally.
I was using it more to mean that I don't know how to move forward, that I keep getting stuck in the same place. I don't really care about "winning."
So, create novelty.
Now's a good time to put on a blindfold and jump in somewhere. Anywhere, really. Except your Ni will mostly be warning of all the things that aren't worth doing. So, you should be putting out feelers of some kind, gathering information about "opportunities," bizarre things that you haven't done before but which ring up scary bells in your intuition.
Half my life I heard negative comments about introversion and it's truly BS. Introversion is simply the way that I deal with personal energy.
But society lables it "bad."
I'm definitely an IJ, for what it's worth. Probably INFJ. That sounds about right... but that's just it. I don't have any idea how to survive if I just jump in somewhere, and there's no one to help me figure it out. I don't really feel like I have anything to fall back on.