Suppose.. an INTP person would like to go to a concert for the first time seeing their favourite band/artist.
But somehow, a small phobia, like social anxiety, or just not feeling like being among a large group of people, and being in a crowded place is stopping this person.
What shall this person do?
Is there any way around this?
Would being in a big crowd trying to enjoy a show be somewhat, uncomfortable for this person?
Do any of you have similar problems like this?
I myself would like to go to a concert show sometime,
but I'm afraid I won't enjoy it as other people?
Would I be afraid of hearing tons of people cheering and just making noise?
I'm not sure if this is how it is for INTPs. Having a big meeting to look forward to, but feeling SO queasy about it and being felt all left out of the enjoyment.
I really don't know what to think of this.
I also don't want to make excuses anymore like thinking of going to a place with lots of people, then in the last minute plans, I'm just ~lazy, I don't have the time, I'd rather spend my money on other things.. I'd rather be having alone time..
So I don't know what to think. If I really want to go to a venue, should I just go for it? Stop thinking to introvertly?
I'm getting tired of it.
But somehow, a small phobia, like social anxiety, or just not feeling like being among a large group of people, and being in a crowded place is stopping this person.
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Would being in a big crowd trying to enjoy a show be somewhat, uncomfortable for this person?
Do any of you have similar problems like this?
I myself would like to go to a concert show sometime,
Would I be afraid of hearing tons of people cheering and just making noise?
![Huh :huh: :huh:](/data/vbsmilies/huh.gif)
I really don't know what to think of this.
I also don't want to make excuses anymore like thinking of going to a place with lots of people, then in the last minute plans, I'm just ~lazy, I don't have the time, I'd rather spend my money on other things.. I'd rather be having alone time..
![Huh :huh: :huh:](/data/vbsmilies/huh.gif)