Arclight
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- 6w5
Something like this:
I try to avoid conflict at first and process things & distance myself a bit to get a clearer picture, but eventually when things pile up and conflict is inevitable, it can be quite explosive from me. I rarely get mad like that, but when I do, I have to try control myself better.
This.. ^^^^
Also..Any hurt left unattended and/or unacknowledged eventually turns to anger.
As an idealist , there is a steady attempt to try and see past things and to keep hoping.
The hope leads to a sense of security until something trips or rubs the sore spot again.
Then there is a crash, ideal, hope, trip, crash, ideal, hope, trip, crash.. etc etc.
Doorslam.
Who am I angry with at this point?