Froody Blue Gem
Necromancing Scapelamb
- Joined
- Dec 19, 2018
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- sp/so
I myself do need encouragement if someone gets close to me. Especially with the insecurities I'm oh so prone to. I am very awkward with hugs but if someone very special came along and we can time to get to know each other, I would actually need the hugs.
But once again, we would need to build the relationship and the trust before I admitted that, and I wouldn't want to force physical affection. Forced physical affection on me makes me curl up into my shell and hide. I struggle with putting feelings like "I love you" into words so I wouldn't want to force it out of someone else. I would need to hear something and be subtle about it but I wouldn't want to guilt trip them. If I truly loved them, I would want them to feel loved.
But once again, we would need to build the relationship and the trust before I admitted that, and I wouldn't want to force physical affection. Forced physical affection on me makes me curl up into my shell and hide. I struggle with putting feelings like "I love you" into words so I wouldn't want to force it out of someone else. I would need to hear something and be subtle about it but I wouldn't want to guilt trip them. If I truly loved them, I would want them to feel loved.