ChocolateMoose123
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I believe everyone can change. I really do. Antisocial is tough stuff, but not as hard as its stigma would imply. It's all about trust and praying and wanting to be healed.
Unfortunately most don't want to be. Like Jesus said, "the road to destruction is wide and there are many who go in by it, but narrow is the gate and difficult the road that leads to life, and few find it."
It is admirable that you think so. I have seen many good natured people like yourself taken in by my father. People like him are highly manipulative and lack a conscience. Lack an ability to feel guilt. They will tell you what you want to hear to get what they want. They will feign helplessness. They will even "walk the walk" for a time. All to gain your sympathy/trust to use against you or use you to enact their revenge against another. (Unknowingly to you).
I learned from having a parent like him that actions speak greater than anything else. I have forgiven him. Long ago. I also think God gave me a brain in which to learn what evil is. There is such a thing as a power of discernment.
If they want healing, they can take that journey themselves or with their religious leader. They can stay away from me.