VILLANELLE
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Hey folks, I'm curious if anyone wants to help re-type me? I am an ENFJ (would agree with ENFP, as well), and I'm just... curious. So, here we go.
1-what makes you angry?
When I'm told to do something, but then they get mad at me for not doing it correctly, when the instructions were unclear.
2-what do you like/dislike most about people?
I dislike when people are rude. If they have an issue with me, I'd rather talk about it, although I hate conflict and confrontation -- I'd rather us be cordial than awkward?
3-do you like animals? why?
I love animals. If I ever had my own place, I'm not sure if I'd be a pet owner due to the hair... but I love animals because they always want to be around you. It's especially nice when you feel like your family seems flippant towards you. Animals always want your attention!
4-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like that the people in my life want my attention and want me in their lives.
5-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I hate that I over-think about a lot of things, I don't know what it's like to not overthink. I'm not fond of my voice, either.
6-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
I'm trying to become fashionable as I get older. It's a stepping stone thing, I guess, but I want to create my own style, not just throw whatever on anymore.
7-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
When I was younger, I wanted to stand out. And then as I got older, I want to fit in. I just... have grown and changed and I realized I was trying to be something I'm not. I was a bitter person before, and I didn't know anything. Fitting in isn't bad. I'm much kinder to myself and I want to give myself what I missed out on.
8-what activities do you enjoy?
I love shopping, I love watching movies (sometimes I fall asleep to them), and I love binge-watching Netflix.
9-what makes you feel secure?
Knowing that my friends want me in their lives.
10-do you like being in a relationship? why/why not?
No experience; next question.
11-what do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
I love movies. They allow me to escape, not that I really need an escape per se. I just enjoy them because... I just do. Movies and everything surrounding them are all that I am truly interested in. I just feel it deep in my heart.
12-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Creativity and why I haven't done anything yet; how I should take the reigns to pursue my dreams.
13-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I just know I've grown a lot, especially in the past year. I still suffer from anxiety, but I have better coping skills regarding it. I'm living a much more fuller life than I used to.
1. How do you respond to clingy people?
They really bother me. I once kept being complimented by an older boy, and I realized how much I hated that type of thing. I like compliments, but being put on a pedestal like that is really uncomfortable and not my thing.
2. If you could change the ocean to any color, what would that color be?
Blush pink. Because it seems nice.
3. Would you consider living in the nude for a period of time (a month)?
Yes! I think that would be freeing.
4. When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
I try to talk to them more. It's never worked out.
5. Have you ever gone skinny dipping? If so, how was the experience?
No, but I'm curious to try it.
6. If you could frame the jockstrap of any sports figure and hang it in your den, whose would you choose?
Tonya Harding, hands down. Don't argue this answer!!!!!!
7. If you had to disguise yourself physically, how would you do it?
Face tape to pull my face back a la Marlene Dietrich (she did this to keep wrinkles away), dye/shave my eye brows, dye my hair; wear a different wardrobe.
8. Name a city that best represents your personality.
New York? Maybe? I don't know. But I've always wanted to go there. Maybe I'm more Europe?
Thanks to anyone who replies in advance; feel free to ask me questions if need be.
1-what makes you angry?
When I'm told to do something, but then they get mad at me for not doing it correctly, when the instructions were unclear.
2-what do you like/dislike most about people?
I dislike when people are rude. If they have an issue with me, I'd rather talk about it, although I hate conflict and confrontation -- I'd rather us be cordial than awkward?
3-do you like animals? why?
I love animals. If I ever had my own place, I'm not sure if I'd be a pet owner due to the hair... but I love animals because they always want to be around you. It's especially nice when you feel like your family seems flippant towards you. Animals always want your attention!
4-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like that the people in my life want my attention and want me in their lives.
5-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I hate that I over-think about a lot of things, I don't know what it's like to not overthink. I'm not fond of my voice, either.
6-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
I'm trying to become fashionable as I get older. It's a stepping stone thing, I guess, but I want to create my own style, not just throw whatever on anymore.
7-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
When I was younger, I wanted to stand out. And then as I got older, I want to fit in. I just... have grown and changed and I realized I was trying to be something I'm not. I was a bitter person before, and I didn't know anything. Fitting in isn't bad. I'm much kinder to myself and I want to give myself what I missed out on.
8-what activities do you enjoy?
I love shopping, I love watching movies (sometimes I fall asleep to them), and I love binge-watching Netflix.
9-what makes you feel secure?
Knowing that my friends want me in their lives.
10-do you like being in a relationship? why/why not?
No experience; next question.
11-what do you love and why? Could be people, things, places, etc...
I love movies. They allow me to escape, not that I really need an escape per se. I just enjoy them because... I just do. Movies and everything surrounding them are all that I am truly interested in. I just feel it deep in my heart.
12-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Creativity and why I haven't done anything yet; how I should take the reigns to pursue my dreams.
13-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I just know I've grown a lot, especially in the past year. I still suffer from anxiety, but I have better coping skills regarding it. I'm living a much more fuller life than I used to.
1. How do you respond to clingy people?
They really bother me. I once kept being complimented by an older boy, and I realized how much I hated that type of thing. I like compliments, but being put on a pedestal like that is really uncomfortable and not my thing.
2. If you could change the ocean to any color, what would that color be?
Blush pink. Because it seems nice.
3. Would you consider living in the nude for a period of time (a month)?
Yes! I think that would be freeing.
4. When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
I try to talk to them more. It's never worked out.
5. Have you ever gone skinny dipping? If so, how was the experience?
No, but I'm curious to try it.
6. If you could frame the jockstrap of any sports figure and hang it in your den, whose would you choose?
Tonya Harding, hands down. Don't argue this answer!!!!!!
7. If you had to disguise yourself physically, how would you do it?
Face tape to pull my face back a la Marlene Dietrich (she did this to keep wrinkles away), dye/shave my eye brows, dye my hair; wear a different wardrobe.
8. Name a city that best represents your personality.
New York? Maybe? I don't know. But I've always wanted to go there. Maybe I'm more Europe?
Thanks to anyone who replies in advance; feel free to ask me questions if need be.