Cranky
New member
- Joined
- Oct 5, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 5w6
Seriously? I just had my heart broken into little tiny pieces by the most cuddly, wonderful INFP. He turned me into a cuddle addict and then went away.
How do you guys DO that? I made every romantic gesture I could think of, and got rejected about as badly as you can possibly imagine. He flirted, had deep conversations with me, petted me into total submission, charmed me with his kindness and sweetness, and then after I had poured forth all the emotions he had stirred up in me, dumped me so coldly that I can't help but wonder if his breakup method was intentional...to give me the capacity to feel anger instead of just pain. It seems like the kind of thing he might have done if he realized it wasn't going to work.
Which just irritates me. Really, he should have known I was capable of understanding that he simply didn't feel the same for me as I did for him, and now I feel worse because I was wrong about his character, not because I was rejected.
How do you people turn the iciest, most rational bitch queen into a hopelessly enamored puppy, and why on earth would you do it on purpose (and there WAS intent on his part to seduce me emotionally)...then be done with us?
I just want to know why? I don't hate INFPs; I'll certainly choose another one if I can, because I really LIKED being petted and snuggled--just hopefully not one with as many issues.
Ow. Broken heart HURTS.
How do you guys DO that? I made every romantic gesture I could think of, and got rejected about as badly as you can possibly imagine. He flirted, had deep conversations with me, petted me into total submission, charmed me with his kindness and sweetness, and then after I had poured forth all the emotions he had stirred up in me, dumped me so coldly that I can't help but wonder if his breakup method was intentional...to give me the capacity to feel anger instead of just pain. It seems like the kind of thing he might have done if he realized it wasn't going to work.
Which just irritates me. Really, he should have known I was capable of understanding that he simply didn't feel the same for me as I did for him, and now I feel worse because I was wrong about his character, not because I was rejected.
How do you people turn the iciest, most rational bitch queen into a hopelessly enamored puppy, and why on earth would you do it on purpose (and there WAS intent on his part to seduce me emotionally)...then be done with us?
I just want to know why? I don't hate INFPs; I'll certainly choose another one if I can, because I really LIKED being petted and snuggled--just hopefully not one with as many issues.
Ow. Broken heart HURTS.