That can certainly be the case. After I started looking into MBTI I discovered that at least three of my best friends tested INFJ (though I'm only convinced that one of them is INFJ...the other two are likely to be, I think, but I'm not sure.) I know that I have felt intense connections with Ns on numerous occasions. Of course, I have sometimes felt intense connections with other types but it may stem from other causes than a recognition of an intuitive approach to life.
I just have a problem with the "look in the eye" thing, really. Of course, I also don't believe in love at first sight
And the "look in the eye" thing was basically the whole starting point of the thread. It just seems to stem from some of NF's worst "we are utterly intuitive" tendencies. Particularly INFJs, and I speak as an INFJ.