Salt n' pepper
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I was only pointing out the common mistake that you made. "Rational" != "Logical".
However, there are logical reasons, and non logical reasons. Purely emotional reasons doesn't make a lot of sense to me and I'd never act on them, especially when dealing with big decisions like having kids. I think what I mean by rational and logical reasons are reasons outside of ones own emotional needs and wants, like does this actually make sense in a larger scale. Actually, I think that's why I said having kids is selfish, because you're only thinking about what you want and need. And I also think that's why I think adoption makes more sense.