My apologies for what has been inadequate appreciation of your contributions to the discussions. I have indeed unfairly discriminated people based on their assumed functions. I have not adequately considered each individual, but I have been combative in order to "get even" with a group of people.
We all do it

Little groups with little tags... it's a convenient way of labeling. It's a small issue, but one that grows into serious issues, like stereotypes, dismissal, etc.
"I could never date a S" was the most common type comment in the dating arena on INTPc, for example. Broad label, broad group (ie: 70% of the damn population) and completely pointless. Even I said that... *shrug*
We create groups to put people in but we have more in common than we realise. The mere grouping and association is a creation of this - for example, Ss that read S descriptions are happy with it. So are Ns reading N descriptions. But you make them read the other side and they both see it as negative - if they know that it's a different "group". It's created, not intrinsic.
This happens when people are separated by eye color even! It's a human dynamic and it transcends type.
I have especially liked your statistical analysis of various psychometric measures, among others. I had, until now, neglected to notice it. I had felt S as glamorizing for their supposed use of facts and yet, as I felt, evasive and defensive to what they accept as a fact.
But are you wrong? Ss are bad that way. Facts, but "their facts". Is it any different than the Ns, though? Theories, but "their theories". It's just people being people... we all do it, it's just how we do it!
I would not have guessed that your feelings of being ununderstood were so much like mine in such a similar manner. Why the non-understanding, then?
We are both human, we both have the same needs, we even have the same approach. Preference is
weak, but it is enough to trigger conflict. Why? Because we are more the same than different.
MBTI
should be used to help cross over those differences. I know that Ns like theories and all that... but there is a point where theories cease to be healthy. Likewise, I know that Ss like fixed ideas, but there is a point where it ceases to be healthy.
The approach is just different and so there will be conflict. Both gain when there is dialogue and both lose when the argument is reduced to type. Functions are supportive of each other!
Listening to what may seem unprovable and unbelievable is thus an exercise in giving the other person a benefit of doubt.
I agree, but only up to a point. For example;
N says something about Ss that isn't backed up.
S responds saying that the N is wrong.
N says S can't understand because S is stupid/something.
(This happened recently, so I'm using it as an example.)
Benefit of the doubt goes both ways, all the time. The way we deal with the conflict is what is valuable and that transcends type.
I think it is simple - if you can't answer "Why" you believe something as an N, then the N theory is unbalanced. Likewise, if the S can't answer "what does that mean?", then the S isn't balanced.
If either side reacts to that kind of a question by dismissing the other, etc, then communication breaks down, conflict starts and the groupings become a weapon.
Fortunately we have all the possibilities to master those interpersonal issues too, which opens up the chance of enriching our world views.
Absolutely, that's why MBTI exists... or why it should exist. To help us understand the other person.
Everytime MBTI is used to dismiss rather than explain, everytime MBTI uses a stereotype rather than an exploratory tool... a small part of MBTI dies and causes it to head where IQ tests headed - eugenics, dominance of traits, etc. Division for division sake.
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I am guilty of doing what I talk about here, even though I try to control it. Everyone here that I have read does it to some degree. I'm prone to one particular type, others to others.
Oh, and to be clear... understanding why Ns think the sky is red isn't going to make me stop telling them it isn't.
