I hear you on that. Face-to-face (and especially body to body, as close as one can imagine) two ENFjs can virtually read one anothers' minds. They're even better at reading one anothers'
bodies. I've seen it and felt it, and it's amazing ... utterly indescribable. When the two of them are happy, healthy, and in love a "love wave" expands around them that affects nearly everyone they encounter. Their happiness is
contagious. For reasons they can't even identify or notice, nearly everyone that encounters a couple of happy ENFjs catches the love, starts thinking about love, and starts seeking love. I had a client of mine, so inspired, who, at the age of 71, sent a letter to the one person he truly fell in love with some thirty years ago (the only time in his life), asking to meet her again. I wrote the letter for him. She agreed to meet him, and the
sole cause of this action was witnessing and
feeling two ENFjs in love.
That said, those same two ENFjs struggle enormously when they have to solve complicated problems. Someone has to take over the T duties in the relationship, and they both know they stink at it.