Yama
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- so/sx
making me second-guess my type yet again. smh.
Questionnaire 1
Very. But, I have OCPD.
The same shit I do every weekend. Sit on my ass on the computer, play games, and go on typologycentral dot com.
Questionnaire 1
other people telling me they weren't fully convinced of my type1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type?
nothing. I am not ambitious. I just want to be happy. "Happy" for me just means being left alone to sit in my room all day and do whatever I want with no responsibilities or commitments ever. I was not born to be a great person or change the world. I was born to be a normal average person and that's what I want.2) What do you yearn for in life? Why?
I don't know? Maybe times when I've been able to live in ignorant bliss with no responsibilities? High school summer vacations?3) Think about a time where you felt like you were at your finest. Tell us what made you feel that way.
Apparently my self-awareness sucks because I don't know? I guess when people get all snarky and condescending. I hate that shit.4) What makes you feel inferior?
how my decisions would affect other people. also how I feel about it. I won't go out of my comfort zone, but if I feel socially obligated to do someone a favor or help them in some way then I'm going to do it even if I don't want to.5) What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I have to have control of the outcome. Other people can't be trusted they'll just fuck it up. What does emphasis even mean?? I just want it to get done so I can go home. And it has to be perfect.6) When working on a project what is normally your emphasis? Do you like to have control of the outcome?
Going to conventions with friends, going to a concert in LA with my best friend, also just having the freedom to sit in my room and do nothing all day if I want. The more freedom and less responsibility and obligation I feel pressured by, the happier I am.7) Describe a time where you had a lot of fun. How is your memory of it?
Not the academic setting, that's for damn sure. I love learning when it's not for school. I guess reading? Or if it's something physical, it needs to be hands-on. I can't learn origami by reading directions, I have to actually do it. But if it's just information, reading.8) When you want to learn something new, what feels more natural for you?
9) How organized do you think of yourself as?
Very. But, I have OCPD.
I don't know?? Like how am I supposed to be consciously aware of that? I just decide whether I like it or not. Which is sometimes hard at first if I don't have enough information to form an opinion.10) How do you judge new ideas? You try to understand the principles behind it to see if they make sense or do you look for information that supports it?
Literally both. I will always stay true to what I believe in but I may suppress expressing those opinions for the sake of harmony if doing so would upset the atmosphere. That's just if I need to though, like at school or something. I would never be friends with someone I disagreed with on moral issues that are personal to me. I don't really give a shit if other people feel that they belong to a group or not. I don't really feel like I belong to any groups. Other people's feelings of inclusiveness aren't really my concern if they aren't making a big deal out of it. I probably wouldn't even notice, to be honest. But I'd feel bad/responsible if someone came crying to me later that they were having problems fitting into the group and would help them then.11) You find harmony by making sure everyone is doing fine and belonging to a given group or by making sure that you follow what you believe and being yourself?
One-on-one, please. Or small groups. Small groups is best, like a couple of friends. I don't like large groups, and one-on-one can actually be kind of intimidating. If I'm writing then I have time to think before speaking, but you don't always have that time when you're face to face.12) Are you the kind that thinks before speaking or do you speak before thinking? Do you prefer one-on-one communication or group discussions?
I need to know where I'm jumping before I leap. I need all of the details. I am that person who asks "when, where, what time" as soon as plans are made. Actions speak louder than words, but I need words of reassurance quite often too.13) Do you jump into action right away or do you like to know where are you jumping before leaping? Does action speaks more than words?
Depends on how I feel that night. But the friends want to hang out now and might not be able to later, and the show can easily be watched online literally whenever I want. I don't really watch TV anyway. And when I do, it's netflix or something. I don't watch live TV. So, friends. I rarely get to see my friends anymore anyway.14) It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
I become impossible to deal with. Stressed, panicky, might start stress-crying. Everything is terrible, blah blah. And when people try to reassure me, say positive things to me, or give me advice, I shoot them down immediately. Then they get frustrated because I'm literally impossible to deal with in this state. Gloom and doom and no way out and there are no solutions ever any of the time.15) How do you act when you're stressed out?
I don't get along well with intense people. I'm very mellow and I don't like being overstimulated (be it positive or negative). I don't like rude or nasty mean people. I think I could get along with pretty much anyone though, as long as they aren't bigots or assholes.16) What makes you dislike the personalities of some people?
me? my day? what i'm doing? I have nothing else to talk about. My hobbies? The things I like? Those are the sorts of things I talk about with my friends anyway. I do not like having face to face conversations about my emotions, but over the internet, it's easier because of anonymity. I also don't care for talking about philosophy or politics unless I'm in the mood, which is rarely ever. I like to keep it lighthearted and chill.17) Is there anything you really like talking about with other people?
Anything that is not of my concern. Don't care about my neighbors or people I don't know. Don't care about "getting involved" at school and hate when people bother me. Don't care about the things that I don't care about. If it's not a part of my everyday life then I don't pay a lot of attention to it and don't care about it.18) What kind of things do you pay the least attention to in your life?
I don't know, go ask them. Well, I guess they have said before that they like me because "I'm mom." I'm the feeler friend among all the thinkers (or am I??) They say that I'm nice, friendly, I think one of them has said warm?? but I don't see it. I do care fiercely for my friends though. They also think I'm silly and can be loud, because while I'm quiet in public I am VERY loud around them. As for bad qualities, we all agree that I'm a timid/nervous person.19) How do your friends perceive you? What is wrong about their perception? ? What would your friends never say about your personality?
20) You got a whole day to do whatever you like. What kind of activities do you feel like doing?
The same shit I do every weekend. Sit on my ass on the computer, play games, and go on typologycentral dot com.