Elwin_Ransom
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- Jun 5, 2007
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- MBTI Type
- XNFJ
I'm drawn to interesting people, and I think this is most likely true of all ENFJ's. I think we're drawn to people who most people brush off as "weird" because ENFJ's often feel weird themselves.
I'm part of the crowd, yeah. I'm friends with all the popular kids, but I don't connect with them the way they connect with eachother. I just can't. I don't know how to. I feel much more at ease when I'm around someone who I don't feel like I have to impress, someone who is odd, and will appreciate me for me.
Truth be told, I think much more highly of most NTJ's that I meet than SFP's.
It's almost weird that you say this because I said something very much like it while talking with Varelse earlier. Very, very much like this.
I usually know all of the popular people, I tend to be one of the popular people, but I still end up on the outside. I would much rather talk to Varelse, and those like her, than those like myself.
Bottom line, even if I've been part of an "in crowd," I rarely ever felt like I was part of that crowd. I seem so likable (arrogance, sorry), and people usually respect me, but things seem to end there. I don't tend to get very close to others, but I'm really not sure that such is my fault.
It would seem that it isn't since I put so much effort into others, but that leaves me unsure of why it is that others (in general) don't seem to put half as much effort into me. Alas. Such is trying to understand human relationships, yes?