[sx] You know you're SX-last when...

[mrcockburn]

Thread inspired by the thread about personal experiences as an SX-last!

You know you're SX-last when...

- You wear earplugs at a concert
- You feel like you act like a 90 year old sometimes (like when you wear earplugs at a concert)
- You schedule "relationship time" in your calendar, after scheduling your work priorities, hobbies, social activities, family events, etc.
- When people talk about "love at first sight", you're like...
- You can't enjoy something for no reason. It has to have some sort of concrete benefit (food for the health benefits, music because it gives you physical energy, socializing to gain information on some third-party subject or to build a good networking contact)
- When you think "intimacy" is just a euphemism for busting a nut. You think of sex as a purely physical activity, and don't see how people get their emotions mixed in.

 

[Haven]

If you find yourself going to dinner parties

 

[mrcockburn]

If you find yourself going to dinner parties

And looking forward to them.

Delicious food and wine! Light, enjoyable conversation with a variety of people! And perhaps getting some good contacts/referrals.

 

[mrcockburn]

- When you've never let yourself get too drunk

 

[OrangeJuice94]

When you watch an sx/so do something rash, and wonder how they have survived so long.

 

[Kasper]

Haha, can't believe I used to think I was Sp/So, that sounds so horribly boring

 

[Haven]

You buy outdoor type clothing so you can feel more outdoorsey while you sit in your office. YOU AREN'T FOOLING ANYONE

 

[mrcockburn]

Haha, can't believe I used to think I was Sp/So, that sounds so horribly boring

Well at least we stay alive to whine about it

 

[Kasper]

Well at least we stay alive to whine about it

Your arteries are screaming at you to please stop the overindulging on comfort food when you're feeling down, please!

 

[Amargith]

When you watch an sx/so do something rash, and wonder how they have survived so long.

Pure, raw charm, baybah

That and having people shake their heads at you, rub their temples till they cannot stand idly by anymore and take over. Seriously...story of my life

 

[FDG]

- You schedule "relationship time" in your calendar, after scheduling your work priorities, hobbies, social activities, family events, etc.

You schedule a calendar like that??

 

[mrcockburn]

You schedule a calendar like that??

That was meant more in a figurative sense, but before living with my ISTJ, I would program my phone with reminders for just about everything, or I'd be liable to forget. Now I don't have to worry about scheduling dates/quality time because I come home to a ISTJ to nag me.

 

[mrcockburn]

Your arteries are screaming at you to please stop the overindulging on comfort food when you're feeling down, please!

No! My arteries are singing!

 

[fatgurl]

I don't relate to any of these except love at first sight. I get infatuation at first sight. No idea if I'm sx last but I'm sp dom.

 

[Lady_X]

y'all are weird

 

[Tha Lassa]

I generally hate concerts and don't go to them, personally. I don't like loud music, but if I'm getting serenaded, I kind of rather do something else at the same time. E.g. actually engage with my friends, read, write, etc.

I don't know. I have difficulty determing if I'm SX first or last based on examples because... It's too specific, maybe. I just don't relate with either thing all that much. I hate networking as much as I hate loud annoying things or overly dangerous situations.

People write it like it's simple, yet their examples are dubious. Nothing seems to consistently work in 100% of cases, I.e. consistentently divide 100% of humans into these 3 (/6) categories of existence.