I'm considering in investing in cosmetic surgery...

[prplchknz]

What is wrong with my hair and clothes? Seriously, I don't know anything about hair (I used to shave my head, would that look better?). And clothing, well, I don't know much about that, either.

And I also hate that I don't have blue eyes.

get colored contacts then

 

[The Ü™]

Colored contacts aren't authentic.

 

[prplchknz]

Colored contacts aren't authentic.

...and plastic surgery is?

 

[The Ü™]

...and plastic surgery is?

Comparatively speaking, definitely. It is a more permanent solution than, let's say, make-up.

 

[jcloudz]

I've come to terms that I am not a conventionally attractive male. The trouble is, I don't know precisely what about my face is unattractive, mainly because I don't pay attention to the details of facial beauty. So I need an objective assessment.

What are parts about my face that I should adjust? For example, is my nose too big? Is my face too wide? Be upfront with me, what should I do about my facial appearance that will make me look more attractive?

Here are some pics:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/showthread.php?t=46520&p=1667296&viewfull=1#post1667296

And here's one I took yesterday:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/members/the-.html

you just have a little issues with acne, and some scarring.

there are creams for removing the scarring and will clear up the acne. your hair looks like crap though and you have a uni brow. i hate your glasses. you are cute though.


your pics give the impression of you don't keep up on your appearance and gives the impression you are a slob, so keep up on taking care of your hair, creams and removing that uni-brow and get some new clothes that don't reflect you are still in your adolescence.

peace out.

 

[The Ü™]

Um, as I've said...I know nothing about hair styling and clothing.

And no, I don't have a unibrow, just a protruding forehead that produces a shadow over my nose bridge. Perhaps I should get my forehead fixed? And maybe those wrinkles that connect from the sides of the nose to the sides of the mouth.

 

[jcloudz]

Um, as I've said...I know nothing about hair styling and clothing.

And no, I don't have a unibrow, just a protruding forehead that produces a shadow over my nose bridge. Perhaps I should get my forehead fixed?

find a stylist. they got things down to a science.
work on the things you can take care of before moving to the things that require surgery. you will find there is not much you need to do.

 

[The Ü™]

Maybe I should also invert my eyebrows, as in heightening the inner brows and lowering the outer brows. The trouble is that, while I like my eyebrows, it's become clear that I look like I have a unibrow.

 

[jcloudz]

Maybe I should also invert my eyebrows, as in heightening the inner brows and lowering the outer brows. The trouble is that, while I like my eyebrows, it's become clear that I look like I have a unibrow.

leave it to the stylist

 

[Glycerine]

Go to an upscale salon, it's like 50 bucks vs 1000s for plastic surgery.

Limit the amount that you wear loose, baggy t-shirts (also with random characters or logos largely across the front). That's a start for the clothing.

 

[jcloudz]

post a pic when you get things done.

 

[The Ü™]

Go to an upscale salon, it's like 50 bucks vs 1000s for plastic surgery.

Of course, salons are somewhat limited as to what they could do. They can't change the structure of the face.

Limit the amount that you wear loose, baggy t-shirts (also with random characters or logos largely across the front). That's a start for the clothing.

So wear dorky polo shirts or impractical button shirts?

 

[jcloudz]

Of course, salons are somewhat limited as to what they could do. They can't change the structure of the face.



So wear dorky polo shirts or impractical button shirts?

what a difference.

the after shot is significantly better.

 

[Glycerine]

Of course, salons are somewhat limited as to what they could do. They can't change the structure of the face.


So wear dorky polo shirts or impractical button shirts?

That also includes more fitted tshirts, without characters and large logos across the front. There are also short sleeve shirts made from other textures not just cotton.

I bet you would be about as attractive as my iSTJ brother with a little change in clothing, hair and attitude. He has never had trouble picking up girls (even if he's pretty cocky). in fact, he's considered "hot" by many girls because of the way he carries himself. There's also a catch to that, he spends a fair amount of time and cares for his appearance.

 

[Totenkindly]

Go to an upscale salon, it's like 50 bucks vs 1000s for plastic surgery.

not to mention recovery time, and your body having to heal/regather its strength, and you're never quite sure of the results. Surgery's not like getting an ear piercing or tattoo per se.

 

[jcloudz]

could someone be clear what in his personality that he needs to change? don`t be too general.

 

[Glycerine]

not to mention recovery time, and your body having to heal/regather its strength, and you're never quite sure of the results. Surgery's not like getting an ear piercing or tattoo per se.

Yeah, I am kind of wary of the possibility that über will not be satisfied even if he gets the surgery because he seems to have the perfectionistic/obsessive nature not uncommon to Ni users.

 

[Betty Blue]

could someone be clear what in his personality that he needs to change? don`t be too general.

He is already making changes...progress... i am really quite proud.

 

[jcloudz]

He is already making changes...progress... i am really quite proud.

sounds like he is nearing perfection. too bad he is straight.

 

[The Ü™]

I bet you would be about as attractive as my iSTJ brother with a little change in clothing, hair and attitude. He has never had trouble picking up girls (even if he's pretty cocky). in fact, he's considered "hot" by many girls because of the way he carries himself. There's also a catch to that, he spends a fair amount of time and cares for his appearance.

But about the hair... I don't quite understand what makes a good and what makes a bad haircut. I've heard opinions about my hair, and yet no one here seems to be a stylist. If it doesn't take a stylist to say that my hair is bad, then it doesn't take a stylist to tell me how it could be improved.