Little Linguist
Striving for balance
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Do you take decisions based on societal norms?![]()
Who, me?
Do you take decisions based on societal norms?![]()
This is the Aleksei's theory, not the mine. (see the previous posts)
What they think is irrelevant, because in order to be an Fe user one must conform to what was defined as Fe, given that Fe is a psychometric symbol and not an actual neurological phenomenon. Jung did not define Fe as acting assertively in accordance to feelings, because Jung did not define the Feeling function as even having anything to do with feelings themselves. Feeling functions are ethical functions.Just ask to Fe users.
I didn't ask whose theory it was. I wanted to know if you were addressing me, and if you were - what do you mean by 'societal norms'?
Yes, I was addressing to you, because Aleksei said Fe users take decisions based on "societal norms". So, being apparently an Fe-dom, I asked to you if you took decisions like this. "Societal norms" don't mean many things to me, and apparently not many things to you anymore.
The problem with this statement is the proposition that "this functions are." The functions are nothing but descriptions of how the human mind works, and really don't exist except as abstract symbols. They can't be described accurately or inaccurately, because they are arbitrary.Quite frankly, I don't think any of these theorists in the past accurately discussed what these functions were.
And thus I wouldn't really pick a fight with an MBTI initiate over it -- just clarify. I would expect someone who has thousands of posts on the subject, who has made huge threads devoted to typing people, to know this, however.And I think it is foolish to call something 'feeling' and 'thinking' and then complain that other people misinterpret it.
I agree, but what does that have to do with anything?In addition, I think it is quite interesting that so many people want to be a 'thinker' in a society where a 'thoughtful,' 'rational' person is considered optimal. Of course you're going to have a bunch of people saying, "Ewwww, no, I'm not a feeler...grossssssssssssss!"
Basically, the difference between Fe and Fi is where you derive your moral compass from -- your sense of right and wrong. Fe users are Fe because their sense of ethics is outwardly derived; based on what people they feel emotionally close to feel is right. Fi users on the other hand draw their sense of ethics from within themselves -- what in their gut they feel is right or wrong. Your description has nothing to do with what Jung intended the F function to mean, and frankly it's insulting to F types. Feeling =/= emotional.Yes, I was addressing to you, because Aleksei said Fe users take decisions based on "societal norms". So, being apparently an Fe-dom, I asked to you if you took decisions like this. "Societal norms" don't mean many things to me, and apparently not many things to you anymore.
Values that society holds to be true. I thought that was pretty simple...Okay getting back to the point: What are societal norms?
Okay getting back to the point: What are societal norms?
What they think is irrelevant,
because in order to be an Fe user one must conform to what was defined as Fe,
given that Fe is a psychometric symbol and not an actual neurological phenomenon Jung did not define Fe as acting assertively in accordance to feelings, because Jung did not define the Feeling function as even having anything to do with feelings themselves.
Feeling functions are ethical functions.
Fe users, as mentioned above, think in terms of "our values" rather than "my values."
No, that's not all, because that's not all Jung defined Feeling and Thinking as.Feeler: peoples who are more at ease to take decisions based on feelings and subjective judgements.
Thinker: peoples who are more at ease to take decisions based on impersonal logic and a seeking for objectivity.
That's all.
Basically, the difference between Fe and Fi is where you derive your moral compass from -- your sense of right and wrong. Fe users are Fe because their sense of ethics is outwardly derived; based on what people they feel emotionally close to feel is right. Fi users on the other hand draw their sense of ethics from within themselves -- what in their gut they feel is right or wrong. Your description has nothing to do with what Jung intended the F function to mean, and frankly it's insulting to F types. Feeling =/= emotional.
Values that society holds to be true. I thought that was pretty simple...
I misworded a little though. In this case "society" is shorthand for what one feels is their community. Fe users, as mentioned above, think in terms of "our values" rather than "my values."
So? Fe's definition of "values" isn't an objective judgment, nor universal -- it depends on the individual. Fe values don't have to be the values of your own society, or even the values of all of society. They just have to be the values of whomever the Fe user feels connected to. If you feel something is right or wrong because your community (whomsoever that community might be), your parents or your friends or your counselor or somebody else feels it's right or wrong, then that's Fe.Your definition of societal values is too broad. Every group has different values.
Basically, the difference between Fe and Fi is where you derive your moral compass from -- your sense of right and wrong. Fe users are Fe because their sense of ethics is outwardly derived; based on what people they feel emotionally close to feel is right. Fi users on the other hand draw their sense of ethics from within themselves --
"guts" about what is right and wrong are F things, not necessarly Fe or Fi.what in their gut they feel is right or wrong.
Your description has nothing to do with what Jung intended the F function to mean, and frankly it's insulting to F types. Feeling =/= emotional.
Values that society holds to be true. I thought that was pretty simple...
I misworded a little though. In this case "society" is shorthand for what one feels is their community. Fe users, as mentioned above, think in terms of "our values" rather than "my values."