punkermit
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- Joined
- Apr 18, 2018
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 6w7
As you gain experiences and get to know yourself and shape the world around you, you become a version of yourself that is more "mature". However, wether or not the mature version of yourself is a more balanced personality cognative function wise or a very cognative extreme is entirely up to you.
Although maturity tends to imply wisdom and balance from the average perspective, it doesn't have anything to do with it. Who says becoming more balanced and well rounded is the best course of action? Other peoples judgements are of course not without meaning but ultimately it is up to your own judgement what is best for you.
So to answer OP. Define "healthy" personality.
Personally, I don't like the idea of fading away by means of cognative ignorance.
In Myers Briggs' terms, I would say healthy means the person shows relatively little weakness associated with their MB type.
Depends on how much you let life fuck with you.
I tend to think on the same track.
If a person has experienced many undesirable outcomes that they believe their personality's weaknesses play a part, they are perhaps more likely to reflect and make changes.
On the other hand, if a person has always been able to relatively successfully conquered obstacles relying on their personality's strength, they are maybe less likely to feel the need to change. In their old ages they might appear to be a more exaggerated version of their youth.