I found an article that mentions INFJ and Aspergers.
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High-functioning autism (HFA) is the condition of individuals who display some symptoms of autism but who are able to function close to or above a normal level in society. HFA is sometimes also known as Asperger syndrome. In everyday terms, those who are affected by it may be understood as being "eccentrics", "nerds", "geeks", or termed a "little professor" or boffin.
The term Asperger syndrome is sometimes used in the same sense as HFA, but the exact difference between autism, Asperger syndrome, and HFA varies. There are a range of deficiencies and talents in HFA, the precise configuration of which can vary widely from individual to individual, ranged along a continuum.
There is a high correlation between HFA characteristics and those described in the Myers-Briggs INTP profile [1] description. Another theory states that Asperger's correlates to the INTJ personality type, whereas HFA correlates to the INFJ personality type.
There is some evidence that the label has wrongly become a catch-all diagnosis for badly-behaved children. In 2000 in the UK, the lead clinician and autism specialist at Northgate and Prudhoe NHS Trust in Morpeth, Dr Tom Berney, published a paper commenting on this. He wrote in the prestigious British Journal of Psychiatry:- "There is a risk of the diagnosis of autism being extended to include anyone whose odd and troublesome personality does not readily fit some other category. Such over-inclusion is likely to devalue the diagnosis to a meaningless label."
There may also be overlap with the label of "intellectually gifted". There is some evidence, largely anecdotal, of instances where children who would previously have been labelled "intellectually gifted" are denied entry to an advanced for-the-gifted educational program - because their case notes give them the broader "autism" label.
Social aspects
In general, people with HFA tend to make fairly frequent social faux pas involving an inability to accurately predict someone else's thoughts, feelings or reactions to something possibly said. They may also forget to display basic social pleasantries (e.g. forgetting to knock before entering a room; or when greeted with "how are you?" they may not reciprocate by following on to ask how the other person is).
Their naive understanding of social interaction may lead them to be overly trusting and thus open to manipulation by others. They may thus be seen as lacking "common sense". For this reason it can be a disaster if youth services departments create large "treatment" groups that place vulnerable young HFA people alongside amoral manipulative youths with psychopathic disorders.
They may appear somewhat removed or disconnected or "dreamy" at times, especially in situations of sensory overload, or perceive extreme social pressure such as during a party or in a crowded bar. They may have only limited levels of eye contact during one-to-one encounters, and this can lead to them being labelled as being "shy".
Unlike autism, there is no general learning disability. The research community recognises that HFA does not happen in people with an IQ of less than about 75 (i.e.: able to complete elementary school and live independently in modern society). People with HFA are articulate - the DSM IV says that spoken language development must be normal for a diagnosis to be made.
People with HFA generally like routine and order, and this may manifest early as childhood traits (e.g.: as a child, writing out a A-Z library card-index catalog for their comic book collection). They may restrict their daily choice of clothes to only a limited range.
When interested in a task or subject area they will work intently on it. If uninterested they may ignore the task, try to alter it so it reflects one of their personal interests, or only do the "bare minimum" required to complete the task. Their preferred method of working may be to produce a complete rough structure or draft first, and then focus intently on taking it through many incremental revisions until it is complete.
http://www.disability-resource.com/Autism/high-functioning-autism.html
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Some of these apply to me but not all of it. I've always had good manners when it comes to knocking on doors when visiting someone's house and I've always responded back when someone says "how are you ? " , even if I only said "Fine" in return. I believe in social manners and speak when spoken too. If I'm going into a door at a business and someone is right behind me or about to come out of the store, I'll hold the door open for them and let them go first. I think in someways my social manners are actually a little better than most. In other ways though, if I feel I want to express something it might be sometimes taken by others as too forward and intense. Making eye contact is no problem for me either, I'm very visual and tend to notice more than others.
I have no issues in picking up social cues such as voice tones, facial expressions, body language, and just a certain vibe that people give off that I can tell what kind of mood they're in. From what I've read about Aspergers , many of them can't do this but I can. I do share quite a few of the same traits with Aspergers. Not severe, but just enough to know I have a mild form of it.
I keep my bedroom windows covered over with black plastic, I don't like bright light. I like to hear a fan run or something similar like an air freshener. I must have this sound to be able to sleep. I can't sleep in a totally quiet room, my hearing is sensitive and I need something to drown out background noise. I've slept with some type of fan or air freshener in the room with me since I was around 8 years old and will probably do so until I die.
I do prefer wearing solid color clothes. I love my khaki cargo pocket pants and solid color shirts. I like certain types of food. I especially like vegetable ground beef soup and cook it every week in my crockpot.I rarely get tired of it.
It's said that aspies like order and routine, that fits me well as I do too. Some songs I like I may listen to 10 times until I listen to another song, but I've known many others who've done the same. Some articles I like I might read many times over.I can get into a list writing routine on occasion but I'm not fanatical about it.
Am I a genius ? I don't think so, but I know I have above average intelligence and can grasp complex concepts and systems.I see patterns and connections. My granny always liked me helping her with 10,000 piece picture-puzzles, I helped her piece together many of them as a kid. I am no mathematician, math is my Achilles heel. I have an exceptional memory and I've always had that since childhood and others that I've known IRL have always told me I have an excellent memory.