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[ESTJ] Why does he do that?


New member
Aug 9, 2021
I have a kind of new Estj colleague who once in a while would help out all of the senior staff.

For some reason, he almost never help me even though he knew I would appreciate it.

I'm in fact his closest friend in the company.

I don't know why he does this?

My Infp personality and terrible past experience makes me constantly worry that he's just being my friend to use me, (I'm sorry) as well as constantly make me doubt the people who I care about the most. (he's my best friend)

Some ideas would be great...