More or less accurate. I don't like it when people are inconsistent or likely to pull the carpet from under my feet. And I like it when people respect my independence and autonomy, but also want to help and (to a certain extent) protect me. I probably give off somewhat mixed messages in that regard.
As far as things being too safe/normal/boring - the way I see it, when you have certain fundamentals that you can rely upon, that allows more space for things to be fun and exciting. (boasting coming up, sorry) I've travelled to many continents and have friends all over the world, I've had rich and exciting cultural and other experiences that most people I know haven't had, etc - and I like it when surprises come up under those circumstances, but only if they're pleasant surprises and certain things are in place! Ie. while I love travelling, I'd rather go visit my friends in a foreign country, or even if I travel on my own, have a hotel booked for part of the trip, or something... Setting off into the unknown with an element of adventure and unpredictability is one thing but I don't feel comfortable doing it with only five dollars and nowhere to stay for the night.
I can be pretty fun and crazy (so I'm told) but only if certain secure elements are in place. If I'm with other people, they should be people I trust. If I'm alone, I should know where I'm staying that night or at least that I have an airport floor to sit on. Etc.
In some ways I trust myself (and certain fundamental things that I've incorporated, like my faith) more than I trust others. So I'd rather travel alone than with people who are going to be unpleasant, a pain, unpredictable, etc. However, I'd rather travel with people who are going to be both reliable and fun, than alone. Romantically I would love to be with someone who would lead me into fun adventures, but he would protect me and be "safe" both emotionally and physically. Since I am good at finding my own forms of fun and entertainment, I'd probably rather be with someone who was (slightly!) on the boring side but reliable and trustworthy and solid, than someone dangerous and fun but unreliable, not trustworthy, etc.
Hope that gives you a bit more of an idea...