ZiL
New member
- Joined
- Nov 27, 2007
- Messages
- 511
- MBTI Type
- ENTP
- Enneagram
- 567?
I barely ever get crushes on people. But I have one now. And it is annoying.
I have a habit of attracting wierd guys. They're generally very smart, and good conversationalists, but for some reason they always give off the co-dependent stalker vibe, and it scares me away. This is the first time I've met such a wierdo who exudes confidence, and I'm really attracted to him. But I don't know what to do.
I'm extremely protective of my emotions, and I don't feel like getting burned ::sigh::. I guess I'll see how it goes. What's particularly frustrating is that unlike most other people, I cannot read him at all. We're very much alike, he and I. He's ENTx in MBTI terms. We're constantly joking, we can get along with a wide variety of personalities, and we hold certain values dear and make those known to others; but our immediate emotions never show. I can't fathom what he thinks of me at all, and therefore I have nothing to act upon. And we've been friends for a while, so I don't want to do anything rash to scare him off.
It's crazy - I can read the relations between other people like lightning, but when it comes to pinpointing what others think of me, I'm always off by a mile.
Bleh....and I have a ton of homework I should be doing right now....
I have a habit of attracting wierd guys. They're generally very smart, and good conversationalists, but for some reason they always give off the co-dependent stalker vibe, and it scares me away. This is the first time I've met such a wierdo who exudes confidence, and I'm really attracted to him. But I don't know what to do.
I'm extremely protective of my emotions, and I don't feel like getting burned ::sigh::. I guess I'll see how it goes. What's particularly frustrating is that unlike most other people, I cannot read him at all. We're very much alike, he and I. He's ENTx in MBTI terms. We're constantly joking, we can get along with a wide variety of personalities, and we hold certain values dear and make those known to others; but our immediate emotions never show. I can't fathom what he thinks of me at all, and therefore I have nothing to act upon. And we've been friends for a while, so I don't want to do anything rash to scare him off.
It's crazy - I can read the relations between other people like lightning, but when it comes to pinpointing what others think of me, I'm always off by a mile.
Bleh....and I have a ton of homework I should be doing right now....
