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[MBTI General] What types are attracted to the INTJ? Romantically speaking.

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^What do you expect with a title like "Mastermind". Very few can live up to the hype.

I attract a lot of INFPs, ESFPs and some ENTPs. I'm starting to think that ENFPs don't like me at all :dry:.
 

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I was referring in particular to the "especially ENxPs" bit. Have these girls tended to be Ne dominant? Because it makes more sense to me for them to be Se dominant.

I'm ISTJ, and the majority of girls to show interest in me have been ENFP.
I've always been under the impression that ENFPs were drawn towards ISTx. I used to have an ISTP and ISTJ male roommates and they both dated a few different ENFPs.

Source? Because if we go by the anima complex which Beebe structures his system around, then the ideal partner would be an Se dom.
I had an INTJ ex boyfriend who dated and was strongly attracted to xSFP women. Like, all of his girlfriends were ISFP and ESFP.


Personally, I've always been attracted to the INTJs I've met. I'm dating a third one currently. I'm certain I've dated just about every MBTI type except INFJ and ISTP. I've found other sensors to be easier to get along with and have adventures with, but less stimulating mentally. I've had whirlwinds of passion with INFPs, ENFPs, ISFPs, and ENFJs, but they were sort of like fire. Hot and intense, then burned out. ENTJs are too much for me, and I've a bias towards dating other introverts when I want a serious relationship.

I think [MENTION=8936]highlander[/MENTION] is the only one to really touch on the possibility of INTJ and ISFP romance. Maybe it's because I'm also a 4w5. But INTJs just have such a strong appeal to me.
 

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I've always been under the impression that ENFPs were drawn towards ISTx. I used to have an ISTP and ISTJ male roommates and they both dated a few different ENFPs.


I had an INTJ ex boyfriend who dated and was strongly attracted to xSFP women. Like, all of his girlfriends were ISFP and ESFP.


Personally, I've always been attracted to the INTJs I've met. I'm dating a third one currently. I'm certain I've dated just about every MBTI type except INFJ and ISTP. I've found other sensors to be easier to get along with and have adventures with, but less stimulating mentally. I've had whirlwinds of passion with INFPs, ENFPs, ISFPs, and ENFJs, but they were sort of like fire. Hot and intense, then burned out. ENTJs are too much for me, and I've a bias towards dating other introverts when I want a serious relationship.

I think [MENTION=8936]highlander[/MENTION] is the only one to really touch on the possibility of INTJ and ISFP romance. Maybe it's because I'm also a 4w5. But INTJs just have such a strong appeal to me.

My girlfriend is an ESFP. It's the best relationship I've had thus far.
 

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My girlfriend is an ESFP. It's the best relationship I've had thus far.

I'm curious...let me pick your brain. What makes this relationship so great for you? How is it different from the other relationships you've been in? What was the initial attraction?
 

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Lol! I read this as....intj doesn't like to clean his room so he needs an esfj to back up the logistics. With an enfp it's all fun and games till the oven burns the house down.


Just my quirky interpretation.

Um. That's not far off. <ashamed>
 

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I'm an entp, so far my best relationship has been with an intp

Sooooo intps <3
 

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I am attracted to INTJs, though we're usually opposites in many ways.
 

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Individuals intrigued with the crooked paradigms of events that would otherwise seem absolutely banal.
 

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I'm guessing all of them at some point. Just a guess though.
 

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INFP's love INTJ's so much lol.

Evee was good evidence of that.
 

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I attract ESFJs and ISTPs, although with most, it's usually my presence first, meaning I talk to them, that kicks off their attraction. Not because they approach me first. As far as I can tell.
 

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Old thread but bump.
Me. Me. Me. I'm always attracted to INTJs. Like a magnet, don't know why. With the last two I met the feelings have been mutual.
Also one of my best friends is a female INTJ.
 
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