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What Are You Subconsciously Afraid Of? • Inspower.co
For me it is fear of commitment (what a surprise !
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The fear of commitment is the most underrated fear there is. It is often dismissed as a "little thing" or even a "selfish act" , and never really gets its proper treatment.
You fear that certain parts of your life will become boring and routine like after committing to it. No matter if it's a demanding job or a new relationship, you fear that once things become "official", they will bore you and make your life dull (or worse).
The thing that will help you to overcome this fear is this: Keep in mind that the reason you got into this situation in the first place is because you liked it. So why wouldn't you like it in the long run? And isn't it worth exploring?
For me it is fear of commitment (what a surprise !
The fear of commitment is the most underrated fear there is. It is often dismissed as a "little thing" or even a "selfish act" , and never really gets its proper treatment.
You fear that certain parts of your life will become boring and routine like after committing to it. No matter if it's a demanding job or a new relationship, you fear that once things become "official", they will bore you and make your life dull (or worse).
The thing that will help you to overcome this fear is this: Keep in mind that the reason you got into this situation in the first place is because you liked it. So why wouldn't you like it in the long run? And isn't it worth exploring?