however, I'm not completely convinced I'm not a 9. I share some of the positive characteristics of a 3, but not so many (if any) of the negative characteristics. however, I share several of the negative characteristics of the 9; lazy, withdrawn (not a negative trait overall, but it gets in my way sometimes) slow to act. I think connection to 3 comes when a 9 says "okay, I'm relaxed and all is well, now let's actually do something". I feel my connection to 3 (if I am in fact a 9) lacks the motivation of a 3 and is more that of an enlightened 9. I mean, yes, internal harmony does come from within, but it is a mistake for one to assume that harmony is 100% internal. for instance, no matter how "enlightened" one is, he will be happier if he is comfortable than if he is in pain, thus, a higher level of harmony requires a higher standard of living, a higher standard of living requires being more externally focused sometimes and finding a way to get more money.
still, these could also be the words of a balanced 7 (notice the emphasis being on physical pleasure as opposed to reputation/admiration from others), but's it's kind of narrowed down to 7w8, 9w8, 9w1 or 9 with both wings