small.wonder
So she did.
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2013
- Messages
- 965
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
Backgound
1. What is your personality type? INFJ 4w5 sx/sp
2. Are you male or female? Female
3. What country do you live in now? What country are you born in? both USA
4. What cultural background are you? Irish American, Midwestern and Southern Roots
5. What religion are you? What religion is your family? I'm a Jesus Follower (non-denom), my family is a mix of Christian denominations.
Questions
6. What career are you in or looking to be in? What are you doing right now to help you achieve this career goal? I'm currently a Vintage Clothing Dealer, and am expanding my portfolio as an Illustrator. I also dabble in leather-work and would love to do that full time some day...among other artistic pursuits.
7. What is your friendships like with both genders? How many good friends do you have and why are you friends with these people?I have 3-4 close female friends, and more than a dozen friends of both genders. I'm friends with these people because they share common values and interests with me. Many of my friends have the same moral and/or spiritual convictions that I do, thus I can rely on them to walk alongside and keep me accountable for my actions and life choices (and I reciprocate). These people are not afraid to love, or challenge me.
8. What paranoias do you have? That people judge me harshly.
9. What are your vices?I'm pretty reactive, especially around those I'm most comfortable with. I imagine desirable (improbable) outcomes of my day/week/life in technicolor, which ultimately sets me up for failure and disappointment. I voice my thoughts too freely, sometimes hurting people in the process. Over analyzing and obsessing. So many more. I've learned to control some of this, but it's a daily struggle.
10. What are your fears? Being stuck working a boring job I hate, being insignificant.
11. What is your relationship like with your parents? siblings (if you had any)? Mom: Love and respect her selfless nature immensely, enjoy her company, but cannot tolerate her passive, Martyr-like tendencies and anxiety. Dad: Admire and love him dearly, but feel sad because he thinks he always needs to be in control. Volatile relationship in the past but have come to feel a quiet appreciation/understanding of him. Brother: Rough history as we essentially both failed each other and caused hurt/distrust. Are now 4 years in to a trusting and loving sibling friendship.
12. How are you with expressing emotion in public? Haha, I do it too readily be it
or
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13. How do you think people saw you in high school? How do you think people see you now? As an exception to the rule, mysterious and removed but also expressive and direct. Definitely capable of intimidation. I think people always wondered what the heck my deal was, only a few really knew. Now I still think the general public/social setting sees me in a similar way, if less troubled and more open. My friends and those who have worked with me, or observed me carefully probably see me as some of the aforementioned but also engaging, funny in a dry way and intelligent.
And finally....
14. What do you see as the point to your life and life in general? Loving and devoting my life to God and His plans, loving people well, using the gifts I've been given.
1. What is your personality type? INFJ 4w5 sx/sp
2. Are you male or female? Female
3. What country do you live in now? What country are you born in? both USA
4. What cultural background are you? Irish American, Midwestern and Southern Roots
5. What religion are you? What religion is your family? I'm a Jesus Follower (non-denom), my family is a mix of Christian denominations.
Questions
6. What career are you in or looking to be in? What are you doing right now to help you achieve this career goal? I'm currently a Vintage Clothing Dealer, and am expanding my portfolio as an Illustrator. I also dabble in leather-work and would love to do that full time some day...among other artistic pursuits.
7. What is your friendships like with both genders? How many good friends do you have and why are you friends with these people?I have 3-4 close female friends, and more than a dozen friends of both genders. I'm friends with these people because they share common values and interests with me. Many of my friends have the same moral and/or spiritual convictions that I do, thus I can rely on them to walk alongside and keep me accountable for my actions and life choices (and I reciprocate). These people are not afraid to love, or challenge me.
8. What paranoias do you have? That people judge me harshly.
9. What are your vices?I'm pretty reactive, especially around those I'm most comfortable with. I imagine desirable (improbable) outcomes of my day/week/life in technicolor, which ultimately sets me up for failure and disappointment. I voice my thoughts too freely, sometimes hurting people in the process. Over analyzing and obsessing. So many more. I've learned to control some of this, but it's a daily struggle.
10. What are your fears? Being stuck working a boring job I hate, being insignificant.
11. What is your relationship like with your parents? siblings (if you had any)? Mom: Love and respect her selfless nature immensely, enjoy her company, but cannot tolerate her passive, Martyr-like tendencies and anxiety. Dad: Admire and love him dearly, but feel sad because he thinks he always needs to be in control. Volatile relationship in the past but have come to feel a quiet appreciation/understanding of him. Brother: Rough history as we essentially both failed each other and caused hurt/distrust. Are now 4 years in to a trusting and loving sibling friendship.
12. How are you with expressing emotion in public? Haha, I do it too readily be it

13. How do you think people saw you in high school? How do you think people see you now? As an exception to the rule, mysterious and removed but also expressive and direct. Definitely capable of intimidation. I think people always wondered what the heck my deal was, only a few really knew. Now I still think the general public/social setting sees me in a similar way, if less troubled and more open. My friends and those who have worked with me, or observed me carefully probably see me as some of the aforementioned but also engaging, funny in a dry way and intelligent.
And finally....
14. What do you see as the point to your life and life in general? Loving and devoting my life to God and His plans, loving people well, using the gifts I've been given.