Santosha
New member
- Joined
- Feb 1, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- HUMR
- Enneagram
- 6
- Instinctual Variant
- sx
Does my ideal mate exist?
*ability to discuss deep, meaningful, abstract concepts. Is fascinated and touchd by the world and life. Appreciates art, travel, cultures, psychology, philosophy, but has a strong scientific bent. Is not easily convinced, but is not so skeptical that possibilites are denied.
*Strong ties to family, loyalty, and seeing things through. Will always prioritize the family unit and mate over friends or career, but still seeks an active social life, and to be fulfilled by career achievement.
*Seeks constant growth and improvement, both personally and in relationships. Is always improving physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.
*Is capeable of great emotional support and depth. Is not self absorbed and will put family needs above own at times.
*Soft-hearted, but has a backbone of steel. Will fight for what he believes in. Will not back down when conflict arises.
*Does not evaluate himself or his achievements through material gains or external standards. He will have his own set of standards and work very hard to reach these. Integrity.
*Will challenge my thoughts, values, and actions if he has good reason to. Will seek equal footing in the relation and not allow me to make all the decisions.
*Will always understand that his happiness rests on him and mine rests on me. Will never engage in emotional manipulation, control, or warfare. If he sees me doing this he will call me it out on instantly.
*He will have a side of him that he only shows to his closest friends, family, and myself. His trust will be earned.
*He will be authentic in his interactions. He will not say or do anything because it is expected or desired. He will always remain true to himself. When he puts the needs of family over his own, it will be because he choses to and sees the value in it.
Uh... thats all for now. *blush*
*ability to discuss deep, meaningful, abstract concepts. Is fascinated and touchd by the world and life. Appreciates art, travel, cultures, psychology, philosophy, but has a strong scientific bent. Is not easily convinced, but is not so skeptical that possibilites are denied.
*Strong ties to family, loyalty, and seeing things through. Will always prioritize the family unit and mate over friends or career, but still seeks an active social life, and to be fulfilled by career achievement.
*Seeks constant growth and improvement, both personally and in relationships. Is always improving physical, mental, and spiritual well-being.
*Is capeable of great emotional support and depth. Is not self absorbed and will put family needs above own at times.
*Soft-hearted, but has a backbone of steel. Will fight for what he believes in. Will not back down when conflict arises.
*Does not evaluate himself or his achievements through material gains or external standards. He will have his own set of standards and work very hard to reach these. Integrity.
*Will challenge my thoughts, values, and actions if he has good reason to. Will seek equal footing in the relation and not allow me to make all the decisions.
*Will always understand that his happiness rests on him and mine rests on me. Will never engage in emotional manipulation, control, or warfare. If he sees me doing this he will call me it out on instantly.
*He will have a side of him that he only shows to his closest friends, family, and myself. His trust will be earned.
*He will be authentic in his interactions. He will not say or do anything because it is expected or desired. He will always remain true to himself. When he puts the needs of family over his own, it will be because he choses to and sees the value in it.
Uh... thats all for now. *blush*