Is there some reason why you don't ask a question like a question? Instead of attaching yourself to it? Example: Why does...? or Are you...?
Just wondering.
You do tend to speak in concrete ways like an S, but that's just based on here, so I don't know. Hey, do you think you may be a bit attached to being an INFJ instead of ISFJ because you think that's what she wants? Hope not as that would never work and would only slow your progress, if it exists, down.
You think you know more about her than she thinks you know about her, you mean? Possibly, if you know her social security number and she didn't give it, but otherwise, it doesn't seem like holding back what you think you know when talking to her is something you do, so she probably knows exactly how much you know. And, more importantly, how much you don't. How much no one does.
If you're correct and it doesn't bother her, then that's cool, but I'd probably have to hear that from her. And, by probably, I mean I would have to hear that from her.
HAHAHA!
That's why horoscopes are popular. Everyone puts on some sort of public persona. We all have secrets.
It's a story I've told over and over again to friends. I can see why people would think I use Si, but when I'm writing on, say, my blog, reading a book, watching TV or a movie, or interacting in relationships, I tend to Ni. I don't really wear my Ni on my sleeves though. That's where my friend is confused. I think, because he's probably an xSFP, he has trouble understanding that Ni-doms don't necessarily always show their Ni. If you read my blog, I think you'd definitely agree with me being some sort of flavor of INJ.
I tell this story black and white. Any figurative speech and it's open to interpretation. I want it to be easily understood and exact, not vague.
I've told her that I enjoy talking to her because there's always something new to learn for me. She knows that I think she's a very deep individual, and that I'm very intrigued by her.
They aren't necessarily "secrets." She comes across as the life of the party socially, but she seems rather depressed and down when by herself. Almost an unwarranted disappointment.
One thing I both love and hate about ENTPs is you just never know. Like I said, she could have a shrine in her closet of me, and she could also not even realize we haven't spoken in about 3 days. I can't read her VERY well on this. But the fact that she said she JUST used me as a one night stand, I know she's full of ish. I know she had SOME feelings for me in the past. I just know. Gut feeling.
And I do think that is a flaw, like I think arrogance and narcissism is a flaw of, say, the young INTJ. I do think she's going to grow out of it, I do think she's WAY hard on herself, and I do think she's a bit of a narcissist, but I see her becoming a very healthy, well-developed ENTP who is going to blossom in this world. I've told her this as well. I got a huge "aww."