Don't talk about Natural selection if you can't fulfill your role. What's the use of a useless man in the household if he's going to be patriarch just because he's a male?
That's not how it works. Women are not that stupid to let anyone lead them, and if you have women bitching in your life, they're bitching for a reason. Demanding Patriarchy while you're useless to your family, society and exhibit the weakest masculine traits, is not the way to put you to command in the cockpit if you don't even own your cock.
It's not even about the women in your life. It's about everyone in your life.
Milennial men have grown weak, and that's the reality they don't want to face. They follow trendy instructions of how they should be and put themselves in a box of criteria to fit in society. Even the father figures which should have been role models are now slowly replaced by puny, angry, abusive, irresponsible, simp-ish, or submissive men, resulting in a very poor development of gender identity of both son and daughter. Look around you, of course there would be this gender confusion pandemic.
Son-father estrangement makes the son prone to effeminization.
Daughter-father estrangement makes the daughter prone to "daddy issues".
And let's not forget delinquincy, truancy, promiscuity, drug abuse, criminal tendencies and other psychological problems.
The father is the source of power that establishes not only the notion of the forbidden, but ensures the growth of his offspring is positively cared for at the best of his ability.
The son needs emotional support, and forge a masculine mindset in the shores of parenthood by identifying with the characteristics of his role model, the father. He enjoys the challenges, the experiences, and all the instructions and teachings that are taking place while father and son are bonding.
The daughter needs emotinal support, that father who will listen to her worries, support her, brighten up her mood, motivates her, protects her, and guides her through the treks of life. He becomes the blueprint of the man she subsconsciously wants.
A healthy upbringing of our children contributes into the definition of the morals governing our society. It all starts from the very foundation which is family, but we're all busy blaming that policy, and blaming that government, and blaming that religion, and blaming that hokum, in a useless neverending jibber jabber intead of owning our part of the problem.
Women who have views about men on a conscious level, will soon change those views when they meet men who are worthy of them changing those views.
Haven't you met someone who told you : "I never thought I would do X ever in my life. If they asked me if I'd be in Y a month ago, I'll them they're insane."...etc, or any kind of statement that demonstrates a change of heart? Yeah.
Whatever its form, whether traditional or modern, If you're a worthy patriarch, your wife will follow, the women and men in your circle will follow, and it goes like this. It's not given, it's earned.