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I thought those were gonna be some funny links, you clit tease!!!
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Although alternatively I could always suggest that women INTJs are the exception to the 'asshat' INTJ rule. I wonder why that seems to be the case?
So, what do you think causes this alleged massive difference between male and female INTJs?
You have a done an excellent job of describing what I mean by emotional. They can use logic but the base becomes all emotionally charged. They are so rigid and dismissive that their minds become narrow. and they take it very personally that people don't share their vision.when you say "emotional"-what does that look like in terms of behavior?
I cannot say I have seen a clear diff in males vs females. But mine are all plus 30...the women are as stubborn and bullheaded as the men. EDIT: but both are very creative and can accomplish the impossible. Some of the women are quite aesthetic though...inf Se I presume?
(You have to be ready to provide data to dispute their plan or as C said-have an observation/perspective/question that is outside of the scope of their original Ni-Te idea before they will listen to you.)
I dont like it the way some INTJs belittle others when they are defensive. It appears very insecure on the surface but hurts others. Oddly it hurts the INTJ the most as others will stop giving them information out of fear-thus the future INTJ ideas and plans are formed on the basis of flawed data-thus are flawed.
My own subjectivity.. INTJ qualities mixed with femininity are a turn on to me. Not so much mixed with masculinity.
As for the difference in gender?.. that is all perception, which I explained in the above post
Our goal? To the best, of the best, of the best!
You have a done an excellent job of describing what I mean by emotional. They can use logic but the base becomes all emotionally charged. They are so rigid and dismissive that their minds become narrow. and they take it very personally that people don't share their vision.
2) When you have pissed them off though, they can become cruel. This is bad.
If you get my ruthless, heartless cruelty, chances are very good you did something to bring it on yourself. We don't go out of our way to be cruel to ones who don't deserve it.