[NT] The NT Females' List of Deal Breakers

[Fluffywolf]

Empath and cryoresistant; can't read your mind though I can get close, and it takes twice to three times as long for me to advance through the stages of hypothermia. It's also good for keeping warm in the winter.

The cryoresistant, however, has a weakness attached, thermophobia.

Edit: the Empath also gives me 6 second situational precog (LOS, 10m range)

Cool, I signed up for super powers and all I got was this lousy t-shirt.

 

[runvardh]

Cool, I signed up for super powers and all I got was this lousy t-shirt.

I'd give these away if I could. Never asked for them and they're a pain in the ass.

 

[Resonance]

ok, that's not exactly supernatural but B+ for effort!

 

[Amethyst]

it takes twice to three times as long for me to advance through the stages of hypothermia.

Hah, I'm the opposite. I'm cold for 5 minutes and I'm close to being a goner.

 

[runvardh]

Hah, I'm the opposite. I'm cold for 5 minutes and I'm close to being a goner.

I guess I forgot to mention I can share. One of the biggest reasons my mother would call me over to her would be to warm her hands on my neck.

 

[RenaiReborn]

Dishonesty of any kind.
Uncleanliness.
Ignorance.
Apathy.
Disdain for people's feelings (yeah, odd I suppose).
Treating any part of a relationship as trivial, including sex.
Cheating.
Substance abuse.
Lack of control.

That's my short list.

 

[greenfairy]

Must Have:
(besides the obvious, like compatible values and lifestyles, and sexual attraction):
-love of nature
-rational and logical
-communicative
-creative, either artistic or musical
-athletic
-healthy and actively trying to stay that way
-compatible sense of humor, not too serious (excessive silliness is awesome, as is humor which is dry like a desert)
-energetic, can keep up with me
-honest
-responsible
-independent, financially and otherwise
-must be a fairy (It's ok if he doesn't know it yet. )

Prefer to Have:
-knows martial arts of some sort
-somewhere near the middle on I and E
-has an attitude to match mine

Rather Nots
-not too much Fi, or S

Deal Breakers
-can't deal with an open relationship
-impolite/gross/unrefined
-easily offended
-doesn't want kids
-smoking
-bossy
-lazy
-the obvious, like can't have a criminal record, be abusive, into drugs, etc.

I actually made a list like this (the OP) when I was quite a lot younger, and then learned to be a lot less specific.

As far as the obvious, which is compatible lifestyles, personalities, values, physical attraction:
physical: skinny but fit (or the other way around), pretty yet masculine
lifestyles: healthy, interested in sustainability and living off the grid, likes going outside and socializing, (preferably) likes dance clubs, environmentally friendly
values: politically liberal/anarcho-socialist leaning, pagan/equivalent spirituality
physical attraction: not much else to say about it, except that it's important.

 

[Grublet]

Huh, this is the only thing I've never made a list about.

 

[violet_crown]

I've posted my, admittedly, fairly modest list of requirements for a mate elsewhere on the forum. The biggest dealbreaker for me is simply a lack of interest on my part. If you manage to both have the things I'm looking for, and for whatever reason strike my fancy, then there's very little that you can do to fuck it up for yourself. I mean, extreme things like violence and infidelity are clearly unacceptable, but short of that I'm virtually unfazeable. That being said, capturing my interest in the first place is fairly difficult, and holding it for a protracted period of time isn't much easier.

 

[Rasofy]

Deal Breakers

-can't deal with an open relationship

-doesn't want kids

 

[greenfairy]

lol

I'm fine with casual relationships until someone comes along who does like open relationships. It's working pretty well so far.

 

[WhoCares]

Must Have - a functioning brain

Dealbreaker - failure to use said brain

So that rules out 98% of the population. Call me picky....

 

[Ism]

MUST HAVE's - A sense of humor (derp), self-Respect, and a soft side *squish squish*


Prefer NOT to deal with if possible - Relationships.


I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who... is sincere and genuine, with similar morals. It also helps if you're a night owl.


DEAL BREAKERS - Someone who is controlling, on drugs, or is generally clueless and lacks introspection