themarlins
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More than anything they want to be appreciated. They want to feel wanted and needed. Ironically, at medium or unhealthy states, when they are wanted and appreciated, they do not like it. It only works when you don't want/need them. Hence, they can fall into a "wanting what they can't have" or even abusive relationship cycle.