King sns
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I have to admit, I'm curious. There seem to be two ideas of what it is.
The first is simply wanting to do things like try new foods, pay attention to and learn from your surroundings, seek physically stimulating experiences such as music, art, running/walking, and also just generally make the current environment comfortable. I seem to be able to deal with this one reasonably well.
The other idea is wanting to get into fights, jump out of airplanes, climb mountains, make crude jokes, behave in a threatening, assertive manner, not respecting authority, and enjoy getting your clothes dirty. I don't really like this one at all.
The thing is, I've heard both of these things as related to Se. Obviously they can't both be right. So, which do you identify with more? Both? Neither?
It might also help if you described it the way you experience it.
Well, I think all of the activities listed above could possibly be associated with Se. Since Se is a cognitive process though, it would really depend on the person, and how they interpret their Se, if that makes any sense. In other words, just because you have the Se doesn't mean you have to encompass all the traits listed above. Your actions would also depend on other factors such as your background, morals, etc. etc. "Behaving in a threatening assertive manner" doesn't really sound Se, though. Could be coming from anyone who is angry.
I've highlighted the ones I enjoy.
But with some explanations. I like to try new foods but would rather stick with the old ones. I just like food in general. If its food, i'll eat it most of the time.
I've never jumped out of a plane but really want to try it.
"not respecting authority." is that an Se thing? I don't know. But I don't disrespect authority for the sake of being disrespectful, I just tend to be suspicious authorities and unintimidated to ask questions, and state my opinion to them. (In a non-threatening, conversational way.) And I don't think that's disrespectful, I think its healthy and in the end I actually get along better with people in positions of authority than anyone else! They usually don't mind simple questioning and feedback! Sorry about going a little

edit: hmm. did not realize how old this thread was till now! oh well. leaving the post anyway.