LucrativeSid
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I don't understand this complex. I would only help the people very closest to me, and only if they are going to help themselves. Otherwise, it's like enabling them to continue the bad habits that get them in trouble in the first place. You can't save someone from themself.
This is what makes sense to me. I've never been in a fight before. I haven't started one and nobody has ever tried to start one with me. I always do exactly what I need to do to make sure things get settled. I would defend myself or an innocent person to whatever extent was required, if we were under physical attack, killing the aggressors if I had to. I've never been in a situation like that, and if people are just talking shit, then they're just idiots who you can ignore. I don't feel responsible for other people's emotions whatsoever. I can offer advice and wisdom if they want it, but I am not going to "take care of them". The best thing I can do for a person is help them become independent.
There's a rational explanation from a man who's never picked a fight or ran from one, but who always uses reason, says what needs to be said, and does what needs to be done.