Demisexuality Test
Results:
Your degree of demisexuality is low (36%).
Explanation of Elements:
Delayed Attraction refers to experiencing sexual attraction only after forming a deep emotional bond with someone. For demisexuals, physical appearance or initial encounters do not trigger sexual desire; instead, it is the understanding, trust, and emotional intimacy developed over time that kindles their attraction. This connection allows them to feel comfortable and genuinely interested in a person, making their experience of sexual attraction inherently linked to the quality and depth of the relationship they have built. This distinct characteristic sets demisexuality apart from other sexual orientations, where immediate physical attraction might be more common.
Emotional Connection refers to requiring a strong emotional bond before experiencing romantic feelings or sexual attraction. For them, romance is not sparked by physical appearance or fleeting encounters but by a profound understanding, trust, and emotional intimacy developed over time. This deep connection forms the foundation of their romantic interest, ensuring that their feelings are based on genuine emotional resonance and mutual respect. Consequently, their romantic relationships are often characterized by a high level of emotional depth and meaningful interaction, distinguishing their experiences from those where romance might develop more spontaneously.
Casual Sex Aversion refers to viewing sexual intimacy as deeply intertwined with emotional intimacy and trust, making casual sex or friends-with-benefits relationships unappealing and unsatisfying. This aversion is rooted in demisexuals’ preference for meaningful and committed relationships, where sexual activities are a natural extension of the strong emotional bonds they have formed. Consequently, demisexual individuals often find greater fulfillment and comfort in long-term, emotionally significant partnerships rather than transient, purely physical encounters.
Flirting Avoidance refers to finding teasing or suggestive bantering uncomfortable. For demisexuals, flirting can feel artificial, as it may not reflect their true feelings or intentions. Demisexuals tend to value genuine communication and meaningful interactions over playful or suggestive banter, preferring to build trust and understanding before expressing romantic interest. As a result, demisexuals might steer clear of traditional flirting behaviors, focusing instead on developing a strong emotional bond with someone they feel connected to.
Romance Estrangement refers to demisexuals’ feelings of uncertainty due to their unique approach to attraction. When they do experience attraction, it can be puzzling because it arises in the context of a strong emotional bond, which may not align with their previous understanding of romance or attraction. This internal conflict can lead to confusion about the nature and intensity of their feelings, as well as how to navigate romantic situations that develop suddenly or unexpectedly.
Total Demisexuality: Your overall degree of demisexuality. Higher scores indicate greater demisexuality.
