thinkinjazz
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- May 18, 2009
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Scratch what I said in the post on not being appropriate for relationships in general. I think I would be very happy with an NT, not really sure what kind. Although my dad is an INTJ, so dating an INTJ would creep me out a little bit. They tend to be a little too nerdy for me anyway. I think maybe an INTP, which I couldn't recognize if I met one, I don't know much about them or an ENTJ that was more mature than my last, because I really really did like a lot of things about him. Just between the two of us what we had was just not enough.
He told me he used to be more sensitive until the GF before me cheated on him.
Sometimes I kind of wonder if these things would be a helluva lot easier if only men were not socialized to be all macho. I mean they have a lot to be afraid of when it comes to emotions. They feel guilty, maybe even a little freakish, certainly there's a feeling of lacking control in this sense and of course terribly unloved and self-conscious. I mean if a woman was crying on the street there's still a pretty decent chance somebody would offer her some consolation; if a guy did that people would probably just look at him really funny.
I know some day some girl will be able to love him enough to break the fear in him, but that's not the job for me- maybe with somebody else, but then I don't think I will think of it as a job, so much as something I want to do with him.
He told me he used to be more sensitive until the GF before me cheated on him.
Sometimes I kind of wonder if these things would be a helluva lot easier if only men were not socialized to be all macho. I mean they have a lot to be afraid of when it comes to emotions. They feel guilty, maybe even a little freakish, certainly there's a feeling of lacking control in this sense and of course terribly unloved and self-conscious. I mean if a woman was crying on the street there's still a pretty decent chance somebody would offer her some consolation; if a guy did that people would probably just look at him really funny.
I know some day some girl will be able to love him enough to break the fear in him, but that's not the job for me- maybe with somebody else, but then I don't think I will think of it as a job, so much as something I want to do with him.
