I don't feel this way. I'm disingenuous in so many ways when dealing with others. Dissembling, redirecting, lies by omission, and jokes are all common ploys for me.
For me, authenticity is more of a gauge or barometer. I like having a read on whether something seems honest or not, but it isn't the only thing that interests me. I'm curious about truths masquerading as untruths and untruths in the guise of truths. It's like a playground to me. I prefer when
I'm the one toying with those things, though. When other people do it, I'm never sure how seriously to take them.
Because everything I do is usually for my own benefit or amusement, I don't worry about being true to myself. The exceptions are 1) when I'm trying to get to the bottom of how I think or 2) when it feels like people expect me to lie. If I'm trying to figure something out, it does me no good to focus on the surface or on a self-deception. If people expect me to lie, I experience this weird tension, and I can't do it. It's fine for me to choose to deceive but not for someone else to impose that choice on me. I'd rather opt out of the whole situation, tbh, even if that means losing an acquaintance or a job.
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Don't feel obligated to do that for me, assuming you were going to.