Which typically comes first for you: work, or play? work (unless i reaaallllllyyy dont want to do it then nothing - id still deny play bc i havent finished work and stress out bc of that fact until i finally do it)
Which describes you better: carefree, or intense? i wouldnt say carefree id say more easy going or relaxed except when it comes to schoolwork or sth im really invested in then im intense
Which best describes your political beliefs: liberal, centrist, or conservative? center
Does it bother you when people are late? yes (one of my friends is always late and it annoys me so much bc i always have to wait for her and if she knows shes always late she should start and hour earlier or sth idk)
Which do you put more weight in: science, or faith? i dont think it has to be 1 or the other i think i can believe in both equally - i think science is understanding Gds world and He gave us the ability to innovate and scientific development is what Gd wants
Which describes you better: more warm-hearted, or cool-headed? i think i might come off as cool-headed but thats bc i dont care about a lot of ppl but if u manage to wiggle into my heart - or ur an animal - i can be the most warm-hearted person
As a personality, are you more passive, active, or balanced? probs passive
Are you generally able to forgive and forget? nope when u wrong me i remember - i might forgive but wont forget
Do you like dogs? Would you consider owning a dog as a pet? YESSSSSSSSSSSS GIMME ALL THE PUPPIESS!!!! (and all other animals too)
How much would you enjoy hosting a big, crazy party? no.
Are Goth chicks more sexy, or more lame? ? um why is this a question? its kinda rude tbh.. i mean im more into butch girls myself (short hair on girls is life as well as long hair on boys fuck gender norms lol) but who am i to judge their lifestyle its not up to me or anyone else filling this out to decide if their "sexy" or "lame" how about we let girls be what they want and let their self worth not be dependent on how sexualized they can be in the eyes of a male?! like why couldnt u ask how do u feel about just goths in general (which is still not nice but better then just singling out the women who choose to identify this way)?
How do you feel about kids (precious, okay, revolting, indifferent to them)? i want to have 5 kids (3 boys 2 girls) so i guess i like kids but i dont really know what to do with them like when a teacher brings her kids to school im definitely not the student who goes up to them and plays with them i might say theyr cute though but on the other hand ive played with my cousins' babies and thought they were adorable (i dont know what to do when they cry though)
Could you date someone who was really quiet? well im really quiet so i probably need someone who will bring me out of my shell. i think most of my friends r extraverted actually and its good bc id never go out otherwise i need them to be like k we're going out tonight and even if i protest force me to go
Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value: logical/mathematical, social/interpersonal, or visual/spatial/artistic? all?
How shy would you say you are? as hell
When deciding what is right and wrong are you more emotional, logical, religious, or something else? idk i think it depends on the situation
Outside of work and school, how inclined are you to investigate something that interests you? not really - i asked my dad to buy me a book on a topic that interested me and never read it bc there's no outer motivation for me to do it so i just kinda dont...
When it comes to right and wrong, which of the following has the greatest impact on your belief system: religion, family/friends, laws, or self interest? probably any of the others led/persuaded by my self interest like i know theres other factors involved/what i should do but if i dont wanna do it i either wont if i know i can get away with it or will begrudgingly bc i know i have to
Which word describes you better: private or social? private
When planning future activities with your significant other(s), do you generally like to take the lead? well i never really had a s.o. so idk but id probably be ok with them taking the lead as long as when i wanna do sth/come up with an idea theyd listen to me
Is the left or right hemisphere of your brain dominant? idk so i just took a test and i scored 9 for both left and right but it told me i use left anyway
Do you typically speak and write in a clear, precise manner? i think so (but idk i guess to accurately answer this id need to ask ppl how well they understand me when i speak)
How often do you try new things (food, activities, music, whatever)? not so often for food and activities but music yes i love music and love discovering new songs/artists
Do you mind getting really dirty working/playing outside? nope (as long as im in sth i wont have to worry about staining)
When facing a complicated situation, can you easily put yourself in another person's shoes and consequently see things from his or her point of view? if the situation directly affects me then no all i think about is me and how itll affect me/my future and what i should do/have i gotten away with it in the past and can i again etc..
Do you care about other people's suffering? sure
Are you annoyed by people who are super logical? why would anyone be?
Are you almost always on time? yes
Which do you cause more of: order, or chaos? i know i dont cause chaos but i dont think i cause order either idk i dont cause anything i just kinda go with the flow unless i really care (like its an argument i care about or its for school)
Would speaking in front of a large group make you nervous? ha! thats like asking if the world's round. hun i get red when im only talking to my family
How frequently do you drink alcohol? i drink here and there (and im jewish so like every week) but ive never gotten drunk - i dont find it enticing to be in a situation that i cant control
Are you careful with your money? yes (bc ive hear my parents argue about money growing up so i always feel like i need to save it bc ill need it in the future)
Which of the following has the biggest influence on your behavior: reason/observation/empiricism/trial-and-error, tradition/faith/upbringing/heritage, or emotion/intuition/instinct? the first bit thats too long to write out and i could copy and paste it but meh
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations? ehh like at 3 am when we're in bed and cant fall asleep bc our brains wont shut off sure but at like 9 in the morning im not willingly discussing man's purpose on earth and if there really is free will and shit
If you had to choose one, which would you rather have: great sex, great friends, great love, or great ideas? great love
Which is worse: being too much of a dreamer, or too cynical? well im both so idk
What size party would you prefer to attend: a few close friends, 5 - 20 people, 20 - 100 people, or more than 100 people? well 5 was the lowest number u gave so im guessing a few close friends is 4 which isnt a party so idk - id rather hang out with just my friends but if we have to go to a party then as long as i have at least 1 friend who wont desert me in a room full of strangers i dont care about the size
How do you feel about germs: obsessed (you bleach anything you can't trust), careful (you wash my hands and cover your sneezes), polite (you always wash up when someone's watching), or unconcerned (you don't actively lick doorknobs)? i dont care i mean i wash my hand after the bathroom but ill eat sth off the floor without a doubt or share food with my dogs or like when school took us on a hike i just ate lunch i ddnt care that i was touching rocks and shit i honestly ddnt even think to wash my hands i hiked and was hungry so i ate lol
How high is your self confidence: very high, higher than average, average, or below average? well ive taken 2 tests on this and both times i got below average so..
How much do you procrastinate? it depends on the thing - hw i do the second i get home, studying i do the night b4 but bc i know myself and i know i dont need more time (if i wasnt sure id be able to in 1 night id start b4), and like essays id probs collect info and think about it but wont seriously start it till idk a week before - and i always get my work done (well mostly - there have been times i forgot to do hw but not for important classes for like those little ones but teachers always believe me when i "forgot it at home" bc my track record is always spotless)
If someone asked what "wherefore" in the line “Wherefore art thou Romeo?†meant, what would you respond with: why, where, how, or who cares / wtf? why but who cares romeo and juliet is shit shakespeare wrote way better plays
In a conversation are you usually listening or waiting to speak? i dont mind listening but when a person dominated the whole convo and then doesnt let me say what i wanna say then all ill probably think about is what i wanna say
Do you ever feel socially awkward? big yup
Do you space out or daydream a lot? constantly i have like 50 diff story lines in my head that i always go back to
How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated? meh
Do you like to be the center of attention? nooooo
Are you attracted to dangerous situations? nooooo
Are you likely to make long, friendly conversation with strangers? nooooo (never understood how my mom could just start a convo with the person in the car next to us at a red light)
Could you date someone who was really messy? probably not bc then that would mean i had to do all the chores and no thank u
Do you usually blurt things out, or do you think carefully before speaking? for the most part think before and like practice it in my head and word it differently before i find a way i like but if im comfortable around u then ill just say whatever
Which of the following characters best represents your personality: Garfield (apathetic and sarcastic), Bugs Bunny (creative & versatile), Batman (quiet problem-solver), or Mickey Mouse (cheery & energetic)? probably like garfield and batman (minus the whole vigilante thing) with a random once in a blue moon mickey
If a photographer approaches you on the street and asks to take your picture, do you pose for them or politely refuse? neither bc i wouldnt stop for him - in nyc u dont stop for someone just keep walking and ignore them
If you were going away for two weeks, when would you start packing: at least 2 days before, the day before, the same day, or not at all? the day before bc i know i can get it done - i know what im brining its just putting in the suitcase which i cant do before bc i might wear/use what i plan on packing but i dont start at like 7pm id wake up at 10 am and pack (or if i know i wont be able to pack the day before then id pack earlier)
Do you pick up after yourself (always, when you have the time, no, or someone else does it)? always when i know no one else will do it for me - like at home i have a cleaning lady so i still try to hang up my clothes and wash my dishes but if i dont it doesnt matter on the other hand i was on a gap yr program and we had apts and i always cleaned up bc i had to and got annoyed when my 1st roommate's side was a mess bc it came onto my side or when ppl left their dishes in the sink for literally a month so that it piled up bc it was impossible to use the sink
Would you be willing to adopt a child? i have no problem with adoption but it wouldnt be my first idea but like if i or my husband couldnt have kids then id look into it
Do you enjoy finding out what makes things work the way they do? i mean i watch how its made when im bored but i dont look at things like a car or idk an eraser and think why/how does it do what it does
How often are you open with your feelings? nope
Do you prefer your social plans settled and decided, or tentative? settled and decided unless its a big decision thatll affect my future like picking a college then i hate making decisions bc my mind is preoccupied with all the other options and what if i regret it
Are you more cheerful (have a positive outlook), meh (have ups and downs), or annoyed ("the world sucks")? meh is like my life slogan
How open are you to trying new things in bed: very (will try anything once), open (but not too crazy), hesitant, or not at all? open
Do you often have a hard time thinking of things to talk about? yep - or id think of sth but not say it and sit in silence
Do you believe reason is more important than emotions in solving problems? yes
In which climate zone would you prefer to live: tropical (love the heat), mediterranean (warm, but not too hot), temperate (everything in moderation), subarctic (love the cold and snow)? temperate - i hate nyc but i love the fact that i get all seasons here
Could you date someone who needs a great deal of alone time? well i need alone time and im not really one to make the 1st move or open up easily to another so if i do and then my s.o. dismisses me bc they need alone time id feel hurt and would probably close myself off and never try again
Do you keep a budget (of your finances)? no
Are you an intellectual (loves learning for its own sake)? Do you find learning boring? i love to learn the problem is if i feel like the teacher isnt teaching me anything groundbreaking or isnt stimulating me and theres no external motivation like a test i either wont come to class or spend the whole class doodling (though i find a lot of times doodling helps me concentrate bc like if im taking notes then im just focusing on transferring what i hear to my hands without really processing it but if i just doodle then im not focused on my hands and my mind is free to actually register the teacher's words? also i dont doodle images i kinda just make scribbled lines and write down words)
Are you more talented, or hardworking? idk
Can you name five living poets and the title of one book by each? Poets, but not titles? Five Poets, even if dead? not into poetry so nope maybe i could name 2 or 3 tops but theyr either dead for sure (poe, longfellow) or i have no clue what time period the person's from so they could still be alive idk (angelou - is that how u spell it?)
Which of the following if your greatest motivation in life thus far: love, wealth, expression, or knowledge? doing well in school
Do you like wild parties? noo
Would you rather win a Nobel Prize, a Grammy/Oscar/Tony/Emmy, a Super Bowl (or other sports championship), or the lottery? nobel prize though idk what id win it for bc i dont plan on going into sciences or literature or saving the world so then probably the lottery
If your significant other put on a slow song and asked you to dance, would think it was romantic, corny, or not your kinda thing? id probably roll my eyes and pretend im doing them a favor by dancing with them but on the inside love every second of it
Does silence make you uncomfortable? no
If a government were brutally oppressing you, would you organize a peaceful resistance, join the oppressive government, escape to a benign power, or break out the .50 sniper rounds? i dont think id outwardly resist bc i wouldnt want my family to suffer for my actions so id either just leave the country or join the govt and try to sabotage them from the inside - thats more my scene then a resistance bc i wont have to take orders and do sth i dont wanna do or cant do for the sake of the cause but id still be able to help it in a passive aggressive manipulative sort of way
How messy are you? a little but mostly clean
How often do you use Facebook? i dont like fb i think its stupid bc if someones ur friend u can just text them and if theyr not ur friend why did u friend a stranger on fb and then why do ppl feel compelled to post their life on it and show off no one cares