Amargith
Hotel California
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2008
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- sx/so
You all do realize that, if you truly are tired and/or offended by someone's interactions with you over time, the best way to respond is to ... ignore him completely?'
There can be no stronger statement than silence and a thread sitting empty for days, proving beyond doubt the general irrelevance of the OP. Treating it as insignificant rather than as something worth your time and energy and contempt.
When you respond with strong judgment... well, that's exactly what was desired in the first place, and you're rather proving his point for him.
...Then again... we could all watch Dinosaurs!
I do agree with you Jennifer, but I remain hopeful that this was maybe a break in his armour against F's. Despite a clear disdain for our 'kind', he seems to actually try and understand it now, which is why I replied. I'd consider that a break-through, in his case. That being said, I am not sure he will not relapse.. But I have hope